Are you fighting for your marriage? In this article we are going to talk about how to put up a fight to save your marriage.
If you are fighting to save your marriage there are going to be a few reasons that you are doing this.
Most people will think that the only reason someone could be fighting for a marriage to be saved is because of love.
This is not always true.
Sometimes people just want to save their marriage simply because they do not want the hassle of financial difficulty of a divorce.
Whatever your reason is these tips that I share with you below are going to help you reach your goal of keeping your marriage together.
If you really want to keep fighting for your marriage it is important that you throw away stubborn pride.
People with pride rarely ever are able to get back together and be happy.
Proud people are not going to be able to give a truthful apology.
A fake apology is not going to do anything but push you further apart since almost anyone can tell when someone is not genuinely sorry.
Do not just go through the motions.
It is extremely important that you take a step back and get your pride in check.
Just because you shouldn't be proud does not mean that you should be a door mat however.
I can remember many times when I tried to save my marriage and "do the right thing".
My partner was not interested and they showed it quite openly.
I really left myself open for a lot of pain and suffering because I kept begging them to come back and to love me.
You need to make sure that you keep a healthy balance.
You should have self esteem that allows you to value yourself as a person and love yourself.
If you do not have this then how can someone else love you? You must learn to enjoy yourself before anyone else will want to be around you.
One of the best ways to learn to keep a healthy balance is to rediscover yourself.
You need to remember who you were before you got married.
Did you used to be fun and out going and now you are withdrawn? Maybe it is the other way around, you could have been quiet and thoughtful and now you are loud and you want to go out all of the time.
These simple changes could have cause a great divide in the relationship.
I am sure that they did not expect you to change so greatly when you got married.
I am not saying that you should change back to the way that you were before you got married but you need to make sure that you are not being inconsiderate of your mates feelings.
This is easy to do since we as humans have been taught to look out for "number one".
You should make sure that you take care of yourself and figure out who you really are and not how the years have formed you.
Do you really even enjoy the changes that have taken place in yourself? Maybe you are just as miserable with them as your partner is.