If your husband doesn't want to have sex, "Why?" is probably the first question on your mind.
  And if you're like most women, you're probably thinking that it's either because you're not attractive anymore or that he's stopped loving you.
  Fortunately, neither of these two are usually the reasons for a sexless marriage, but they are both very painful, damaging, and understandable assumptions.
It's only natural for you to think that he must not find you attractive anymore.
  After all, he used to get so turned on by you-- you barely had to put on make up or perfume, and he was ready to jump into bed for some wild sex.
  And now, no matter how hard you try, you can't seem to get him interested in the least.
The same goes for worrying that he doesn't love you anymore.
  I know what you're thinking: "If he loved me, wouldn't he want to make love with me?"  And while it seems like the most obvious reason that your husband doesn't want to have sex, why he's lost his interest is something much deeper than that.
You see, men need more than just physical attraction or just loving their wife in order to really want to have sex with her.
  They need to feel a real deep emotional connection, and a lack of that connection is the reason behind most sexless marriages.
If you and your husband have started to drift apart in your relationship, then don't worry.
  It's something that happens to many couples, and it's also something that you can work on repairing.
  And once you start developing a deeper emotional bond, your husband will start wanting to have sex and be intimate with you again.