So many people ask, "what is the top method to get my ex back?" If you are really desperate to get your ex back, you need to take control of your emotions and start letting your mind take over.
When you let your emotions control your actions, you would most often do things that could further complicate the issue.
Instead of thinking things through, you might do things that are detrimental to your relationship.
People who go by their emotions would often do things like:

• Calling their ex on the phone and pleading for another chance
• Begging their ex to come back or to take them back in
• Making promises which they know they cannot keep
• Apologizing for the breakup even if they were not the ones that caused it

All of these are things that you should never do after a breakup.
Unfortunately, these are the exact things that people do when they let their emotions run loose.
Emotions are extremely powerful and you need to handle them with utmost care.
When you harness them and use them for your benefit, you can achieve tremendous results.
On the other hand, if you lose control of your emotions, they can drag you to places you never intended to go just as a runaway horse drags its rider along when he has fallen off the saddle.
So the very first thing you need to do is harness your emotions and bring them under control.
Stop thinking about the breakup.
Start thinking about your reunion.
What you choose to think will ultimately decide how you feel.
So choose to think only positive thoughts.
Once your emotions are under control, you will have a clearer mind to think about what really happened and where things went wrong.
Before you get your ex back, you need to identify and sort out the underlying problem in your relationship.
There is no point in reuniting without resolving the conflict first.