It is the normal run of the mill stuff for you and your husband to be emotionally attached.
But, in your own case, your husband is emotionally distant.
For you to bring a kind of reversal to this trend, you will need to know what and what could have led to such emotional separation he has created between the two of you.
There are several things that could have led to such a thing.
It is possible that you are the one responsible for pushing him away.
How many night has he asked for sex and you have refused him? What you should realize is that each time you refuse him, you are pushing him away.
It may be that you have not been the clean type.
Check out your bedroom and see whether there are some age long laundry that had been abandoned at one filthy corner, check your bathroom and see how clean or dirty it is.
Check your sitting room and ask yourself the last time you dusted the furniture.
Finally check yourself.
How tidy or untidy are you these days? Do you go through the day without the thought of taking your birth until evening? Some women are in the habit of not taking their bath every night before sleeping.
Do you happen to be one of them? If so, this may be one of the things that are pushing your husband away emotionally.
Are you close to your husband at all? Do you ever communicate with him? How much do you know about things that transpire in his working place? How much do you know about his personal likes and dislikes? All these things can combine to emotionally push your husband over the edge.
There is also the possibility of your husband having an affair.
This could have been caused by you not giving him what he wants out of a wife.
It is almost always the outcome of a wife not taking good care of herself.
Do you cook his food well? If you are not a good cook, your husband may have been able to find an alternative to your food elsewhere.
This too may be responsible for his being emotionally distant from you.