How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend To Talk To You Again - 2 Simple Techniques
If your ex girlfriend is not talking to you right now, then you might be wondering if there is any way possible that you can turn things around and get her to open back up to you. It's kind of tough to think that you can get your ex girlfriend back when she does not even want to seem to speak to you, but it is not impossible. There are some things that you can do that will kind of make it a lot easier to get your ex girlfriend speaking to you again.
Here are 2 techniques that you can use to get your ex girlfriend speaking to you again:
1. Give a decent window of time and then call her on the phone and never once mention the idea of getting back together.
It should be pretty easy for you to think of some excuse why you can give her a quick ring on the phone. What happens to most men that winds up working against them, is that they immediately go into a conversation about getting back together or telling her how much they miss her. Do NOT do this. This is the kind of behavior that makes her want to avoid you. What will make her want to talk to you is if you get a fun conversation going, where there is no pressure on her, some playful flirting, and no talk at all about getting back together unless she brings it up. Even then, you want to be vague, kind of like it is the last thing that was on your mind.
2. Get her to obligate herself to doing something she loves with YOU.
I'll give an example of what I mean. An ex girlfriend of mine was a HUGE fan of the group, Staind. And, not many of her friends were really into them that much. Well, a few weeks after we had parted ways, and I got the feeling that maybe I wanted to be back with her again, the tickets for Staind went on sale and I called her up to see if she wanted to go. Now, I did not make it out to be a date, she had to buy her own tickets. I treated her like she was just a friend that I thought of when I heard that they were coming to town. No pressure, a fun evening, and she ended up spending the night after the show at my apartment.
Here are 2 techniques that you can use to get your ex girlfriend speaking to you again:
1. Give a decent window of time and then call her on the phone and never once mention the idea of getting back together.
It should be pretty easy for you to think of some excuse why you can give her a quick ring on the phone. What happens to most men that winds up working against them, is that they immediately go into a conversation about getting back together or telling her how much they miss her. Do NOT do this. This is the kind of behavior that makes her want to avoid you. What will make her want to talk to you is if you get a fun conversation going, where there is no pressure on her, some playful flirting, and no talk at all about getting back together unless she brings it up. Even then, you want to be vague, kind of like it is the last thing that was on your mind.
2. Get her to obligate herself to doing something she loves with YOU.
I'll give an example of what I mean. An ex girlfriend of mine was a HUGE fan of the group, Staind. And, not many of her friends were really into them that much. Well, a few weeks after we had parted ways, and I got the feeling that maybe I wanted to be back with her again, the tickets for Staind went on sale and I called her up to see if she wanted to go. Now, I did not make it out to be a date, she had to buy her own tickets. I treated her like she was just a friend that I thought of when I heard that they were coming to town. No pressure, a fun evening, and she ended up spending the night after the show at my apartment.
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