How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back For Good
Losing a girlfriend can be a terrible experience especially if you have been together for several years and the situation is out of your hands, it can feel almost hopeless but it doesn't mean you cant try to get them back.
One of the biggest problems I see these days is couples breaking up then the guys will go and beg for the girl back bombarding her with phone calls, texts, and sometime nice gestures like buying them tons of chocolates and flowers.
Don't get me wrong if your in the wrong and you caused the break up by something you did then apologizing and sending them some flowers isn't all bad but that's where it has to stop.
I am no relationship expert but I have a lot of personal experience dealing with break ups and I did in fact get my girlfriend back after spending months doing the wrong stuff but as soon as I learned where I went wrong it didn't take more then a few days before I had her calling me begging for me to come back to her the roles completely reversed in just days.
So what did I do wrong? I was upset after being broken up with and I made that pretty clear and only a day or two after I was calling, texting and emailing her to try and get back in but all this is doing is empowering the ex because the more you want her back and beg for her back the less interesting your going to be because nobody wants something they can have easily.
Women like a man who takes charge not a begging miserable boy.
If you want to come out on top you need to cut off communication with your ex girlfriend and when they break up with you just act like it's not a big deal and maybe there right you should break up.
Keep yourself busy and dont think about them maybe even go on some dates and let the rumor get back to her that your life is going good without telling her directly.
When she calls you back you need to play it cool.
Don't go running over there just say I'm alittle busy right now so I have to go but maybe in a week or so we can go get a cup of coffee.
The longer she has to sit and think about what your doing the better and the more anxious she will get.
One of the biggest problems I see these days is couples breaking up then the guys will go and beg for the girl back bombarding her with phone calls, texts, and sometime nice gestures like buying them tons of chocolates and flowers.
Don't get me wrong if your in the wrong and you caused the break up by something you did then apologizing and sending them some flowers isn't all bad but that's where it has to stop.
I am no relationship expert but I have a lot of personal experience dealing with break ups and I did in fact get my girlfriend back after spending months doing the wrong stuff but as soon as I learned where I went wrong it didn't take more then a few days before I had her calling me begging for me to come back to her the roles completely reversed in just days.
So what did I do wrong? I was upset after being broken up with and I made that pretty clear and only a day or two after I was calling, texting and emailing her to try and get back in but all this is doing is empowering the ex because the more you want her back and beg for her back the less interesting your going to be because nobody wants something they can have easily.
Women like a man who takes charge not a begging miserable boy.
If you want to come out on top you need to cut off communication with your ex girlfriend and when they break up with you just act like it's not a big deal and maybe there right you should break up.
Keep yourself busy and dont think about them maybe even go on some dates and let the rumor get back to her that your life is going good without telling her directly.
When she calls you back you need to play it cool.
Don't go running over there just say I'm alittle busy right now so I have to go but maybe in a week or so we can go get a cup of coffee.
The longer she has to sit and think about what your doing the better and the more anxious she will get.
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