It is nice when a woman shows interest in you.
Especially one you are attracted to.
Consider this hypothetical situation.
Say she says to your co-worker that she thinks you are cute.
Great.
Later she offers you some kittens.
Awesome.
She is going on vacation soon to a remote country location and wants you to come with her.
Whoa, you have not even been out with her.
The topper? She emails you and says that you are her dream guy and wants to settle down with a man like you.
Double whoa.
You have not even been out with her.
Does that scenario sound familiar? It might not have played out exactly like that with you, but I bet you have experienced something similar.
There is a balancing act we always talk about on our dating women radio show.
We want a woman to show interest, yes, but when the interest level crosses into psycho zone, then no, we do not want that.
You have to wonder about her mental state and how many other guys she has pulled this with.
Makes you feel pretty special, eh? An important component is that she shows interest in you but that is only one part of what you should be looking for.
You need an interested woman that is clinically sane, flexible, a giver and someone that displays loyalty and integrity.
It is so easy, as men, for us to let our ego do the talking.
When you have a woman that is attracted to you smothering you with over the top attention right away, in some ways it does make you feel good.
You better back up from your ego and realize that dating an unbalanced woman that is coming on heavy for the 84th time in her life with a guy is not right for you.
Unless you like to be guy #84 to go down in flames with this psychopath.
And you will know the difference between a woman that is interested and one that is over the top crazy with attention for you.
Remember guys, if they come on too strong, too fast, you will pay for it later.