Are you trying to get a great guy to fall in love with you? Has it turned out to be a little more complicated than you'd thought? Had you let all those romance novels fill your head with unrealistic heroes who sweep the heroine off her feet? Sometimes it can be hard to come face to face with reality and admit that it's not quite what we'd envisioned.
But just as true love is more complicated than the fantasy of a novel, it can also be a lot more fulfilling.
Here's how to get love in the real world.
We all know how men lust every other minute after every other woman.
There's no getting around the fact that sex is a huge selling point in any relationship.
The mistake most women make with this, however, is in thinking that sex should be the first thing in a relationship, which can lead men to think it's the only thing in the relationship.
Hold back a minute and think of what you're telling him.
"I'm sexy, I'm hot, I'm yours.
" But what about, "I'm smart, I have a lot to offer, and if you're man enough, I could make you happy.
"? Try to start your next relationship on a friendly note rather than a sexual tryst.
Actually talk to the guy and get to know what's going on in his head.
Let him see that you're a well rounded woman who has plenty going on in her life and who has a lot to bring to a relationship.
Just don't do it in a desperate way that might scare him off.
Keep it cool.
Have fun.
Laugh with him and focus more on having a good time rather than building up an incredible romance.
When he's having a good time, he'll relax and he'll always be eager to see you again.
His emotions will grow in a gradual way and he'll fall in love with you.