Get Your Ex by Knowing When to Use the Right Technique
Have you had a break up? Do you think about getting back with your ex? Have you tried some things that have made your situation worse? Know this, there are ways to get your ex back that work amazing well.
Everyone has been through a break up at some point in there life.
In fact, break ups go through a predictable life cycle.
I am pretty sure you may not have looked at a break up in just this way.
What is important to know is that at certain points in a break up life cycle, certain techniques work and certain techniques do not work.
For example, if you recently have been through a break up and you and your ex are both extremely mad at the other, a phone call or a face to face is not the best approach (this will likely lead to more arguing and bad feelings).
A better approach would be to break off all communications until the hard feeling have passed.
Similarly, if you or your ex are constantly calling, emailing or texting in an act of desperation to try and get the other back ...
this will not work.
NOBODY is attracted to desperation.
If this is something you are doing - STOP immediately.
Know this, in order to get back with your ex you will likely need a plan.
There are certain behaviors that do work.
There are certain qualities you are going to need (don't worry you already have them - we just need to bring them out again).
Knowing what they are and when to use them in the life cycle of your break up will give you the best chance of getting back together.
One more tip, work on you.
What I mean by that is this fact: you can only change you.
So work on being the best you.
If you think you will get back together and hope your ex will change this and that.
The chances of your relationship succeeding is slim.
Only your ex can change themselves (you cannot change them).
Everyone has been through a break up at some point in there life.
In fact, break ups go through a predictable life cycle.
I am pretty sure you may not have looked at a break up in just this way.
What is important to know is that at certain points in a break up life cycle, certain techniques work and certain techniques do not work.
For example, if you recently have been through a break up and you and your ex are both extremely mad at the other, a phone call or a face to face is not the best approach (this will likely lead to more arguing and bad feelings).
A better approach would be to break off all communications until the hard feeling have passed.
Similarly, if you or your ex are constantly calling, emailing or texting in an act of desperation to try and get the other back ...
this will not work.
NOBODY is attracted to desperation.
If this is something you are doing - STOP immediately.
Know this, in order to get back with your ex you will likely need a plan.
There are certain behaviors that do work.
There are certain qualities you are going to need (don't worry you already have them - we just need to bring them out again).
Knowing what they are and when to use them in the life cycle of your break up will give you the best chance of getting back together.
One more tip, work on you.
What I mean by that is this fact: you can only change you.
So work on being the best you.
If you think you will get back together and hope your ex will change this and that.
The chances of your relationship succeeding is slim.
Only your ex can change themselves (you cannot change them).
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