I Want To Get Married: Easy As 1-2-3!
"I want to get married," you say.
Well, take action and make a LIST.
It's easy as 1-2-3, or A-B-C! A list for what, you ask? Great question.
Create a list of all the attributes you want and require in a life partner.
You can either start with all the superficial traits down to the deeper and important attributes or the other way around.
A great many women want to have that life-long relationship, but have no idea what they want and require in their partner.
That doesn't help anyone at all.
Begin by jotting down must-haves in a relationship, and then gradually add to that list with anything else you can think of.
Why make a list? First of all, it helps for you to see right in front of your eyes, in black and white, what you need.
And that makes it REAL.
Counselors and friends and life coaches all say to write down your goals.
This is the same thing, except they are goals you'd like to achieve in a partner and relationship.
This will help you to really nail down what you need and want in that life-long relationship, and weed out what doesn't serve you for your highest good.
Be picky! No holds barred, here.
You will probably create several rough drafts before you arrive at the one, final list, and that's okay.
Making this list will make you think long and hard about yourself, as well.
People change throughout life.
Maybe five years ago, certain behaviors or attributes in your partner were okay with you then, but today, in 2012, they are not.
Really think this through.
A big part of figuring out what kind of person you'd like to be with is getting to know yourself better first.
Now, when you make this list, do not put anything negative or write statements negatively.
It's crucial to make it all positive because when you read this list, you will be emitting those "vibes" out there, whether they are positive or negative, and that's what you'll be attracting back into your life.
So only list positive attributes, behaviors, etc.
, in your list.
Read this list to yourself and out loud (be careful who is around you, though!) every morning and in the evening and throughout the day, if possible...
I made a list years ago, and I met my now husband and have been married for several years now - and counting! The only thing that I didn't get on my list was that he has blue eyes, and on my list, I stated brown eyes.
I can live with that! I've gotten everything else on my list.
That is because I knew exactly what I wanted and needed in my partner.
To get you started, here is an example of a few potential traits: Trustworthy; Great sense of humor; Health conscious; Six feet, 4 inches tall; Family oriented; etc...
You get the idea...
Start creating this list before you go out looking for him, and before too long, when you meet men, you will recognize what traits and behaviors they possess and whether they match up with your list, and you will be able to act accordingly.
Well, take action and make a LIST.
It's easy as 1-2-3, or A-B-C! A list for what, you ask? Great question.
Create a list of all the attributes you want and require in a life partner.
You can either start with all the superficial traits down to the deeper and important attributes or the other way around.
A great many women want to have that life-long relationship, but have no idea what they want and require in their partner.
That doesn't help anyone at all.
Begin by jotting down must-haves in a relationship, and then gradually add to that list with anything else you can think of.
Why make a list? First of all, it helps for you to see right in front of your eyes, in black and white, what you need.
And that makes it REAL.
Counselors and friends and life coaches all say to write down your goals.
This is the same thing, except they are goals you'd like to achieve in a partner and relationship.
This will help you to really nail down what you need and want in that life-long relationship, and weed out what doesn't serve you for your highest good.
Be picky! No holds barred, here.
You will probably create several rough drafts before you arrive at the one, final list, and that's okay.
Making this list will make you think long and hard about yourself, as well.
People change throughout life.
Maybe five years ago, certain behaviors or attributes in your partner were okay with you then, but today, in 2012, they are not.
Really think this through.
A big part of figuring out what kind of person you'd like to be with is getting to know yourself better first.
Now, when you make this list, do not put anything negative or write statements negatively.
It's crucial to make it all positive because when you read this list, you will be emitting those "vibes" out there, whether they are positive or negative, and that's what you'll be attracting back into your life.
So only list positive attributes, behaviors, etc.
, in your list.
Read this list to yourself and out loud (be careful who is around you, though!) every morning and in the evening and throughout the day, if possible...
I made a list years ago, and I met my now husband and have been married for several years now - and counting! The only thing that I didn't get on my list was that he has blue eyes, and on my list, I stated brown eyes.
I can live with that! I've gotten everything else on my list.
That is because I knew exactly what I wanted and needed in my partner.
To get you started, here is an example of a few potential traits: Trustworthy; Great sense of humor; Health conscious; Six feet, 4 inches tall; Family oriented; etc...
You get the idea...
Start creating this list before you go out looking for him, and before too long, when you meet men, you will recognize what traits and behaviors they possess and whether they match up with your list, and you will be able to act accordingly.
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