Have you been trying to get him to fall in love with you?  Are all of your attempts failing miserably and you don't know what else you can do?  Do you sometimes think you simply don't have what it takes to merit a guy's love?  Different men out there are looking for different qualities in the women they meet.  The perfect man for you is out there.  You just need to know what to do when you meet him.

There's no getting around the importance of your looks.  This isn't simply a matter of what Mother Nature gave you, but how you work it.  Fashions should flatter your particular figure, not just follow the trend of the day.  Same goes for your hair and make up.  Enhancing any look you put together should be a genuine smile.  There's no point getting all dressed up only to go out with a frown.

While your appearance is the first thing that will catch his eye, it's your personality that's really going to have to keep him at your side and wanting to know you better.  This is where some women slip up.  Too caught up in what they want to say and how badly they want to impress the guy, they barely let him get a word in and they don't take the time to take any interest in him.

A guy wants to know that you admire him and you can listen to him.  When he sees that you have a true interest in him, and that he has a good time when he's with you, he'll slowly feel an emotional connection to you.

You might become frustrated by the snail's pace of this growing connection, but you really need to let this come on his timeline.  Love isn't an emotion that appreciates being pushed or forced, and you don't want the guy suddenly feeling the pressure of your expectations.

Relax and enjoy this time of discovery.  It'll keep the dates with him stress free and fun.  When he's ready, he'll fall in love with you.