Mom's getting divorced so things are getting bitter.
She has to cope with a different situation.
She has to solve all sorts of problems.
It's a terrible situation for her to go through! Think of something which will take her mind off this.
Here are some great gifts for mom to alleviate the pain she is going through.
When she's back from work you could ask her to go to a movie with you.
At first she may resist, but later consent to it.
Keep talking to her on the way about the movie and your friend's opinion of it.
Get her something to eat, as she would be skipping meals thinking of various other issues.
When weekend is approaching then get her a surprise! Bake or buy her favorite cake.
Make some food which she will enjoy.
Make sure you tell her that you love her and will be by her side whenever she needs you.
When you have your summer break tell her that you need to go for a holiday.
She may tell you to go, but be smart and tell her that your college insists you use this holiday as an educational tour.
Get her to take you and you will see the difference.
She is bound to be depressed and will feel very lethargic.
She would not be bothered about her looks.
Make an appointment to the salon to have spa, facial, manicure and a pedicure.
See the difference! Mom would feel a lot better and start adjusting to the scene of life.
Mom may not have changed her wardrobe from the time dad left.
She would not be thinking of her clothes.
Take her and let her have a look at the recent arrivals.
She will then decide to buy herself new clothes.
Keep her busy.
Have her friends visit your home often.
Make her comfortable with the idea of getting divorced.
If you have a family friend ask him to take her out to dinners.
Tell him that you need him at this point of your life.
I am sure you will get it done for mom's sake.
If mom has spare time then ask her to help you with your studies.
Even if you do all your work make sure to keep some for her to help you with.
When she does that she will also feel good that she's spending time with you as well.
Buy the games which mom likes to play.
On weekends when you find she's bored then offer to play with her.
It may be outdoor or indoor games.
Ask her friends to join.
Make sure to tell her friends not to question her too much about the divorce and how far it is proceeding.
Take her to the swimming pool and both of you get to swim.
All her frustration will be lessened with the exercise.
Mom will definitely feel better.
She will have less time to indulge in self-pity.
Mom might have given up her hobbies due to household chores, taking care of you, and work pressures.
If she used to knit, get her a few pairs of knitting needles and ask her to make something for you.
Buy her some wool as well, and a pattern book.
The most important thing of all is she needs your support.
So spend time with her, give up some of the time you spend with your friends and make sure she knows you love her.
Mom will never forget what you have done for her all her life.