Married Man Affair: The Five Things You Should Know When Having An Affair With A Married Man
If you find yourself having an affair with a married man; even after your friends and family told you it was a bad idea and your subconscious was urging you not to proceed forward, you did anyway. Well, maybe you've found out it's not as easy as it looks, or maybe you have decided you want out, or want him to lose his wife. Here are five things about the married man affair you should be aware of.
Sound Advice For A Woman Having an Affair With A Married Man:
1 - There are many people involved in the affair. It actually take more than two to tango in a married affair and the reasons are pretty obvious. You may be dealing with children on both sides, certainly at least one spouse and try to remember that playing with hearts, plays with emotions and emotions are pretty much all we have in this world, so eventually you could be destroying lives.
2 - When you date a married man you have to realize there are limitations to how much you can see the man and be with him. You obviously can't be seen in public places (unless you plan on going to the Bahamas) you can't visit him at work and all of this becomes at the very least a frustration and can lead to serious problems. Think of it like a long-distance relationship while living in the same zip-code. In short, you become a prisoner to his schedule.
3 - Sacrifices must be made when dating a married man. In theory, you could be rewarded for the amount of sacrifice you make for your heart, however you will of course receive no reward. The main issue is that you have to share him with others, and most likely a lot of 'others.' This will cause pain and suffering that many women cannot bear with for long.
4 - Be careful of the name-calling. That is, you may have to put up with whispers behind your back by friends and family. This is why it is recommended to keep the married affair as secretive as possible. If you have to deal with insulting titles along with everything else it will just add more stress to an already stressful enterprise.
5 - Dating a married man doesn't really have a future. Of course, this is assuming he is not thinking of leaving his spouse (which is very likely). Of course, let's say he does get a divorce, then you have to live with the lives you destroyed in the process.
The fact of the matter is that if you are in love with someone...well, the heart wants what the heart wants. However it is important to try to be as practical as possible after you have thrown all inhibitions out the door. A married man affair is nothing to take lightly, and this article is simply trying to shed some light on your situation.
Sound Advice For A Woman Having an Affair With A Married Man:
1 - There are many people involved in the affair. It actually take more than two to tango in a married affair and the reasons are pretty obvious. You may be dealing with children on both sides, certainly at least one spouse and try to remember that playing with hearts, plays with emotions and emotions are pretty much all we have in this world, so eventually you could be destroying lives.
2 - When you date a married man you have to realize there are limitations to how much you can see the man and be with him. You obviously can't be seen in public places (unless you plan on going to the Bahamas) you can't visit him at work and all of this becomes at the very least a frustration and can lead to serious problems. Think of it like a long-distance relationship while living in the same zip-code. In short, you become a prisoner to his schedule.
3 - Sacrifices must be made when dating a married man. In theory, you could be rewarded for the amount of sacrifice you make for your heart, however you will of course receive no reward. The main issue is that you have to share him with others, and most likely a lot of 'others.' This will cause pain and suffering that many women cannot bear with for long.
4 - Be careful of the name-calling. That is, you may have to put up with whispers behind your back by friends and family. This is why it is recommended to keep the married affair as secretive as possible. If you have to deal with insulting titles along with everything else it will just add more stress to an already stressful enterprise.
5 - Dating a married man doesn't really have a future. Of course, this is assuming he is not thinking of leaving his spouse (which is very likely). Of course, let's say he does get a divorce, then you have to live with the lives you destroyed in the process.
The fact of the matter is that if you are in love with someone...well, the heart wants what the heart wants. However it is important to try to be as practical as possible after you have thrown all inhibitions out the door. A married man affair is nothing to take lightly, and this article is simply trying to shed some light on your situation.
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