The widest vibrational description of who you are is your name.
If you take every emotional descriptive word and put them all together in a mix with the intensity that you are a vibrational match to, this would be you.
You are the composite of all your emotions and it makes you quite unique.
You are indeed, energy first and what shows up in the physical appearance of life, is you and how others see you.
Life seeks greater expansion.
It follows a path a least resistance, a path provided by you as the chooser of where your attention is given and your choice to entertain the thoughts you do.
There is nothing you do except that you thought it would make you happy.
To diminish your identity is all you can diminish, you can not diminish yourself.
Who you are is infinitely more vast than the identity you have come to know yourself to be.
So when we're talking about diminishing oneself we're talking about the diminishing of our invented identity.
Your belief structure is an extremely powerful tool that is imbedded into your identity and it plays the role of pulling into your life, much like gravity, the occurring of your life.
The occurring is the frame by frame story and history of your life in total.
A belief structure inclined to diminish another also is inclined to diminish oneself limiting what is possible.
If you 'know' you are not 'good enough' and you continue to say it, don't expect to get results greater than what your fundamental belief system has you grounded in.
If you think people don't get you, do not be surprised if they don't.
If you believe people don't love you, do not be surprised if it turns out that the person you are with doesn't.
If you believe that you are the beliefs you have, and you can not assign yourself more satisfying ones, don't be surprised if it seems difficult to do just that.
Until you sufficiently recognize that you are not your identity, you will have a tremendously difficult time transforming the fabricated beliefs you have sentenced yourself to.
Why, because our lives have been about survival.
In this case it is the survival of a false self, a false identity.
Who you consider yourself to be, is a set of beliefs which allow you to know yourself, whether you like it or not.
Everything in the universe is a reflective mirror allowing you to know exactly who you are, or who you consider yourself to be.
In addition, it is who you think that others consider you to be as well.
You are adding a new and improved emotional you to the mix almost never.
You stopped that long ago.
Since you already 'know' who you are, you simply keep strengthening that belief.
But now you are coming to know that you are anything you desire to become.
You are destined to have all that your soul has longed for.
The law of attraction is no different than the law of gravity.
They are the rules of life and have been unwavering since life on this planet.
They simply are.
Diminish no one.
More importantly, avoid diminishing yourself.
You will however, so what is meant here is to never allow yourself to get away with it, notice it and put the correction in - immediately.
If you make someone wrong for something, fix it, now.
Don't listen to the conversation in your head.
Consciously choose to move in the direction of your higher stand.
The intersection of choosing to move in a direction more closely aligned with your higher self, your divine self, is a point of real power.
This is where the universe alters to provide you your wishes.
Actually look for the evidence of the world you are inventing.
This is the first principle of Shamanism "the world is what you think it is.
" When you come up to and must confront a belief that is off, don't worry.
Do not try to change it.
It's a red light, something to notice, you don't want to change it, you simply want to stop and notice and look for a better interpretation.
Recall who you are inventing yourself to be and though it still has less physical reality, it is allowed to further develop by the mere actions you are now displaying.
See if you can stop reacting to the beliefs you have that are counter to those you are standing for.
React as though your new realities exist now.
They do.
Those who criticize, judge and diminish others tell a lot about their own fundamental beliefs about themselves.
That is kept guarded and hidden in a dark place such that it is not recognized.
When you feel the most okay with yourself there is little need to diminish another.
It signals when a person is lost in their false identity which may be defined as inadequate, desperately needing to prove to be sufficient.
Diminishing others affects the world environment.
Perhaps the smallest act of violence is the judgmental thoughts we entertain, each feeding the condition in which humanity exists, each feeding our own condition.
Whether you want a transformation in the world or you want a higher batting average or you want a loving relationship to show up in your life, the principles for attracting those results lie in your awareness of the beliefs you identify with, and your willingness to know the mechanism for creating workability.
The secret is in bringing happiness and joy to every nook and cranny of your life.
Leave no one less than who they were when you met them.
In fact they are far more by your grace alone.
Give everything a better interpretation, and by knowing you, they become more aligned with their divine nature, a happier and joyful person.