Part of what makes that view great and the climb worthwhile is when you get to the point when you realize that things are going to be better than they were before. I learn plenty of things along the way and here I need to share with you some key tips that helped me to get the life I wanted.

It is never easy when you think about having to start over with something. if it seems like you have to start your whole life over again. I know what that feels like as a few years ago, I had to do exactly that. It felt like there was a mountain in front of me and I was about to climb it in stiletto's with no safety line. But I was determined that I would climb it and that when I got to the top, the view was going to be great.

What got you here won't get you there!
Take some time to understand what got you to where you are today, so that you don't make the same mistakes again. Mistakes are funny things as there's so plenty of different types of mistakes, with varying consequences from simple small mistakes to massive fat bloopers but the most important thing to remember is that in order to learn from them you have to accept them.

Own up to your mistakes even if only to yourself and you will get a much clearer understanding of how you got where you are today. They all make mistakes; even if that mistake is about allowing ourselves to put up with things they knew they should not have. There is no point in blaming everything on other people or life itself as you won't learn anything. If you don't accept your mistakes and look at them properly, then chances are you will keep making them. And the brilliant thing about beginning again is that you get to do things differently, better than before.

Recognize your strengths.
No doubt there are probably plenty of times in the past when things happened that you didn't expect and you were thrown in to a bit of turmoil. Or perhaps you even expected them to happen and didn't have a choice. Either way, you dealt with them and got through them. You are probably a lot more resilient than you think you are.

Think of all the things that you have dealt with in your past and all the things that you have achieved and recognize how strong and capable you are. Be thankful to those things that you survived as they enabled you to learn something. Stop telling yourself that you are no lovely and that you are hopeless and tell yourself you are a brilliant and strong person, capable of dealing with whatever comes your way - because you are. When you recognize your strengths you will be able to tap in to them and grow them even more.

A lot of the time people resist change because they are unsure of what is going to happen and they feel as though they might not have control over the future. They do everything they can to avoid any type of discomfort in our lives, yet challenges and pressures can bring out the best in us. Your situation may have changed without you wanting it to but if you embrace it and find ways to rise to the challenge, you will certainly be glad that it did.

Change is a positive thing.
People often stay stuck where they are because they are either frightened of change in some way or are actually perfectly happy where they are - The proverbial pig in mud. Being adaptable and open to change allows you to experience new things and learn far over you would if you stay where you are.

Stay focused on what you need.
Work out what it is you need for your future and set some goals around this so that you have something to work towards. This helps you to stay focused and will keep you moving forward. Set small chunks of goals so that you avoid overwhelm and help you to tackle things four step at a time.

If your first objective is to sort out your finances then start small by working out a budget and then set yourself a target to stick to. Achieving smaller goals will increase your confidence and build your self esteem, allowing you to set more challenging goals as you go along. When you keep your focus on the future and where you are going you will start to gradually see things moving and improving and before you know it you are well on your way to enjoying the new and improved you.

Quote: "To grow, you must be willing to let your present and future be unlike your past. Your history is not your destiny."

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