The pain of a break up is tough.
Getting an ex girlfriend back is even tougher because you have to deal with emotions AND try to not screw up your chances.
This isn't impossible though, and we'll be discussing five simple steps of getting your ex girlfriend back quickly! So here are the steps: Getting Back Step 1: Don't drunk dial, beg and plead, or do anything that will further drive them away.
Instead, you need to play the mature one and agree to the breakup.
I know this may be hard, but it's worth it.
But what if you've already done everything wrong? Well, you can send a hand written letter apologizing for your behavior and then agree to the break up.
This is important because it disarms any future objections to communication.
Getting Back Step 2: Form a plan.
A plan enables you to look at the problem logically.
  Getting Back Step 3: Don't be afraid to go on dates with others.
This can actually be powerful for two reasons: 1.
It allows you to move on and get over the pain by seeing others.
2.
It shows your ex girlfriend that maybe they might lose you for good.
Getting Back Step 4: Limit your contact with them.
Don't hang around all the time; all this does is allow them to ignore any feelings they have for you and avoid any guilt they may due to the fact that they see you all the time.
Don't give them this luxury! Getting Back Step 5: Live your life! It's easier said than done, I know.
But it's vital that you get out, go to work, pick up a hobby, do something with your time! It's great for the healing process!