Having No Financial Communication Will Cause Problems in Your Marriage
There are many causes that lead to divorce, but the one topic that I am going to talk about in this article is financial matters.
This type of problem causes mistrust and when there is no financial communication, it will cause problems in marriage that will lead to divorce.
Though the contents of this article are for both husband-and-wife, I am mainly going to talk to the man of the house.
Because it seems like the main cause of all marriage problems mainly falls on the husband.
In my marriage, I have been financially dishonest this past year with my wife where it has caused marital problems and he has gotten to the point where mistrust has settled in.
Instead of playing the blame game, I have taken the responsibility of getting these loans paid back and I have promised my wife that I will never let this happen again.
We are in the process of making that climb together again and debts are getting paid back.
During this financial crisis, it has caused a lot of pain and turmoil on both sides.
There have been sleepless nights and a lot of panic attacks.
Here are 2 pointers that I am going to share with you: 1.
When it comes to finances, be sure to communicate with your spouse about what your intentions are and what you're going to buy.
That way, when your spouse checks the bank account, they will not see any surprise charges from an unknown source.
Husbands, especially newlywed husbands, or at the cause of many marriage fights because they think they can do whatever they want with money.
2.
Do not get a loan, car title or pay day, without notifying your spouse, no matter if the intentions are good or not.
There will be many thoughts that will come into your mind, such as, I will get this loan paid off in no time or the payment date is not for another month.
Believe it or not, unexpected circumstances will always pop up that will cause you not to pay your loan on time and when that happens, if you are using your checking account, the funds will be withdrawn from your account and if your spouse sees that deduction and they did not know that you are taking out loans, this will cause marital arguments and mistrust will settle in.
If you are caught up in this type of circumstance, take responsibility by promising your spouse that you will get this debt paid off and that you promise to never take out a debt again without notifying your spouse.
If you are a husband who has been laid off from work or you are a stay-at-home dad, this can be very tempting because of the promise that you receive instant money that very day.
For the husband, do not hit the panic button, all you would be doing is putting your family in financial distress in the long run.
If you are starting a new home based business that mainly deals with affiliate marketing, do not take out loans to pay for Internet traffic or other unnecessary items.
If you do see something that catches your eye and that you want to buy it, tell your spouse about this certain item; they may say yes or no, but the important thing is that you talk to your spouse before making the purchase.
Being financially honest is the key to marital bliss.
If you are having marriage problems because of financial matters, do not give up hope because there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
For the guys, do not be stubborn or hardheaded but learn to humble yourselves and talk to your wife before making a purchase of a certain item or taking out a loan.
This type of problem causes mistrust and when there is no financial communication, it will cause problems in marriage that will lead to divorce.
Though the contents of this article are for both husband-and-wife, I am mainly going to talk to the man of the house.
Because it seems like the main cause of all marriage problems mainly falls on the husband.
In my marriage, I have been financially dishonest this past year with my wife where it has caused marital problems and he has gotten to the point where mistrust has settled in.
Instead of playing the blame game, I have taken the responsibility of getting these loans paid back and I have promised my wife that I will never let this happen again.
We are in the process of making that climb together again and debts are getting paid back.
During this financial crisis, it has caused a lot of pain and turmoil on both sides.
There have been sleepless nights and a lot of panic attacks.
Here are 2 pointers that I am going to share with you: 1.
When it comes to finances, be sure to communicate with your spouse about what your intentions are and what you're going to buy.
That way, when your spouse checks the bank account, they will not see any surprise charges from an unknown source.
Husbands, especially newlywed husbands, or at the cause of many marriage fights because they think they can do whatever they want with money.
2.
Do not get a loan, car title or pay day, without notifying your spouse, no matter if the intentions are good or not.
There will be many thoughts that will come into your mind, such as, I will get this loan paid off in no time or the payment date is not for another month.
Believe it or not, unexpected circumstances will always pop up that will cause you not to pay your loan on time and when that happens, if you are using your checking account, the funds will be withdrawn from your account and if your spouse sees that deduction and they did not know that you are taking out loans, this will cause marital arguments and mistrust will settle in.
If you are caught up in this type of circumstance, take responsibility by promising your spouse that you will get this debt paid off and that you promise to never take out a debt again without notifying your spouse.
If you are a husband who has been laid off from work or you are a stay-at-home dad, this can be very tempting because of the promise that you receive instant money that very day.
For the husband, do not hit the panic button, all you would be doing is putting your family in financial distress in the long run.
If you are starting a new home based business that mainly deals with affiliate marketing, do not take out loans to pay for Internet traffic or other unnecessary items.
If you do see something that catches your eye and that you want to buy it, tell your spouse about this certain item; they may say yes or no, but the important thing is that you talk to your spouse before making the purchase.
Being financially honest is the key to marital bliss.
If you are having marriage problems because of financial matters, do not give up hope because there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
For the guys, do not be stubborn or hardheaded but learn to humble yourselves and talk to your wife before making a purchase of a certain item or taking out a loan.
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