When in a relationship, whether it is a short or long term, there will always come a time when the relationship will lose its spark.
A sense of normalcy will take place and you tend to feel that nothing is interesting anymore.
This is often true for long term relationships.
The interest of the other subsides due to the fact that you both know each other so well that you think nothing will interest you anymore.
Now, when the spark of the relationship is gone, couples usually panic and make hasty decision such as putting an end to the relationship.
However, breaking up is not always the answer to this.
Being in the normalcy state is actually just a challenge to the relationship and it is up to you on how you will rekindle the fire in the relationship.
One of the many ways to put the spark back is to do something that interests both of you.
You can enroll in a gym class, baking, cooking or whatever that both of you wants to learn.
In this way, you can bond not just as lovers but as classmates as well and exposing yourselves to new people can also help.
This is because the new people see you as a couple and since they do not know both of you that well, they would expect that the two of you are really in good terms.
Another way to ignite the spark is by doing the things that both of you have done in the first few months of the relationship.
Always remember that it is when the relationship is new that being mushy and head over heels in love happens.
It is in the first few months that both of you out pour each other the love that you feel.
Try reliving this point in time by visiting the places that both of you always go to when dating.
If at first both of you have been exchanging sweet notes, try doing it again as well.
This will serve as a gentle reminder on how both of you really kicked it off and became partners.
Now, if you both of you have very tight schedules and have often neglected each other, plan a trip together and make sure that you escape from the real world.
The trip does not have to be grand but make it to a point where both of you will not be in touch with the computer or mobile phones.
Just focus on each other's presence.
Shut the world for a while and enjoy the company of each other.
Most importantly, never assume that the spark has really gone and that love has subsided.
Sometimes, you tend to feel that it is gone because both of you are just busy and had no time to spare for each other.