How to Get Your Fiance Back
You planned your dream wedding while you were on a road trip.
You made vows and promises under the moonlight on different occasions.
You held hands endlessly.
And went to churches, praying that your love will last and hoping that one of the structures would be where the wedding bells will ring.
One day, while you were preparing for your Friday steak night, he calls and tells you he can't make it...
and so can't he meet you on your next dates.
He needs time and space to be by himself - away from any distractions and the biggest one is YOU.
After five years of being steady, your fiance simply walks away.
How do get him back to your lovey - dovey days? When faced with a dilemma as personal as this, most of us actually blame ourselves or the other party, in a swinging pattern.
We tend to remember only the good things, or the bad things.
That's how extreme we can be.
We forget to think objectively and look at all sides of the story.
We are so emotional that we let our feelings overcome our reason.
Before any scheme can be made to get your fiance back, the most important and the first thing to be accomplished is to keep our skyrocketing feelings at bay.
Anger and resentment should not be the ones fueling you to bring back your fiance's love back to life.
Or else, what you are aiming for is not really a second chance but revenge.
Once your rather polar feelings are under control, you can now continue with your resolution to get him back - that is, if your "me time" made you realize he is worth it.
You can call you ex-fiance and ask him if the two of you can meet up and clarify things.
Him saying yes does not mean things will get better and the two of you can pick up where you left off.
It also doesn't mean that you can badger him with questions and force him to answer all of them.
The key to a successful post break - up meeting is to take it slow and easy.
Do reconnect but don't impose yourself on your ex-fiance.
Allow both of you to adjust to the presence of one another.
From there, start your way back to his life - gradually.
There's no point in rushing as this may only make your issues disappear into thin air without being resolved.
It's a second chance at love you want and is working for, not a second installation of "a love that was meant to be but never was.
" Keep that in mind.
You made vows and promises under the moonlight on different occasions.
You held hands endlessly.
And went to churches, praying that your love will last and hoping that one of the structures would be where the wedding bells will ring.
One day, while you were preparing for your Friday steak night, he calls and tells you he can't make it...
and so can't he meet you on your next dates.
He needs time and space to be by himself - away from any distractions and the biggest one is YOU.
After five years of being steady, your fiance simply walks away.
How do get him back to your lovey - dovey days? When faced with a dilemma as personal as this, most of us actually blame ourselves or the other party, in a swinging pattern.
We tend to remember only the good things, or the bad things.
That's how extreme we can be.
We forget to think objectively and look at all sides of the story.
We are so emotional that we let our feelings overcome our reason.
Before any scheme can be made to get your fiance back, the most important and the first thing to be accomplished is to keep our skyrocketing feelings at bay.
Anger and resentment should not be the ones fueling you to bring back your fiance's love back to life.
Or else, what you are aiming for is not really a second chance but revenge.
Once your rather polar feelings are under control, you can now continue with your resolution to get him back - that is, if your "me time" made you realize he is worth it.
You can call you ex-fiance and ask him if the two of you can meet up and clarify things.
Him saying yes does not mean things will get better and the two of you can pick up where you left off.
It also doesn't mean that you can badger him with questions and force him to answer all of them.
The key to a successful post break - up meeting is to take it slow and easy.
Do reconnect but don't impose yourself on your ex-fiance.
Allow both of you to adjust to the presence of one another.
From there, start your way back to his life - gradually.
There's no point in rushing as this may only make your issues disappear into thin air without being resolved.
It's a second chance at love you want and is working for, not a second installation of "a love that was meant to be but never was.
" Keep that in mind.
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