Did you know that ANY marriage--and I do mean ANY--can be saved?

And that YOUR marriage can become a blessed, fruitful experience, on top of that?

I've heard all kinds of amazing stories of marriages that seemed destined for the dreaded 'D' word (you know, DIVORCE) being saved miraculously. Your marriage can be saved in the same way.

With the right advice--and sacrifices from BOTH sides--you don't even have to worry about either leaving for a day. Or if one of you already has left, you can still save your marriage. It really is possible.

Here are 4 great tips I accumulated from a great course called Save Your Marriage Today [http://www.mybuyortry.com/save-your-marriage-today/].

1) Make a commitment that divorce is NOT an option! This is something that has really helped my wife and me in our marriage. When the 'D' word is removed as a threat, and is NOT openly discussed as a convenient option, then you both know you're committed to each other. Knowing there is a commitment to working things out is a fantastic way to making that holy commitment working out!

2) Define Boundaries! Boundaries are essential in terms of communication, as well. Make sure you set your limits as to what can and cannot be talked about. If there is a topic that ALWAYS drives you both to fighting, such as the husband playing golf on Sundays, learn when and when not to talk about it. AVOID UNNECESSARY FIGHTING!!!

3) Use "I feel" instead of "You make me!" Yes, we all want to express our feelings to each other. And that's okay! But do it the right way--communication is the make-or-break key to any good marriage.

So instead of telling a person who nags, "You're driving me nuts! I can't stand you!", try, "When you say ___ all the time, it makes me feel hurt." Your partner will be WAY more open to change when you phrase it in a non-threatening, but at the same time clear, format.

4) Know the "Marriage Killers!" These are the common problems and situations that have been known to cause divorce. I can't list them all here (though you can probably guess some of them), but for more, I highly suggest checking out the Save Your Marriage Today course [http://www.mybuyortry.com/save-your-marriage-today/].

Remember, any marriage CAN be fixed. It just takes COMMITMENT, and of course wisdom in knowing what works, and what to avoid (remember the boundaries!!!).

I hope you got something out of this, and can renew your commitment to making marriage work. I'll leave you with one bonus tip, that is ESSENTIAL for any marriage to work:

5) ALWAYS BE WILLING TO FORGIVE! Yes, people do awful things in marriage, from cheating, to physical and verbal abuse, to even deserting his or her partner. But if you're commited to each other, then you MUST be willing to forgive. I'm not saying it's easy, but divorce is essentially saying that what someone has done is unforgivable. If you can't forgive, you can't commit. And without commitment, there's just no way your marriage can be saved.

So, are you committed to FORGIVE your spouse for what he or she has done, and move on in life so that you can experience love and romance once again?

If you are, then I try believe you can revive your marriage today!