Do you think you can make a guy fall in love with you, but you're not really sure how? Have you been told what a great woman you are, yet you're still single and it's time you found a true love? Do you want to put an end to the single life and embark on a strong and loving relationship? Here's what you can do to work your way into his heart.
Start by getting rid of the notion that sex is the only way to get a guy's attention.
You can't deny it'll get his attention, but it won't be with love in his eyes or any intention of building a relationship with you.
It'll simply be for sex and then he'll move on.
It's his emotions you want to touch on if you want more of a romance.
While guys do ultimately want to get you into bed, they have the ability to wait and build a connection with you first.
So start there.
Get to know him and let him get to see the fabulous woman you are.
You have plenty to show him and you should build up a little admiration on his part.
In the end, a truly loving relationship is built on mutual respect and admiration.
During these first few dates you want to build on that, but you want to do it in a fun and relaxed fashion.
Don't turn your dates with him into serious interviews.
Asking him a ton of questions and finding out a bunch of trivial things about him aren't going to help build that connection.
It's the time you put into it that will really bring you two closer together.
Ensure there's a sense of ease that surrounds you.
Whether you're strolling through the park, driving down a country road or dancing the night away at a nightclub, avoid bringing any tension in the mix.
This means you shouldn't have your future plans for this relationship hanging over your head.
If you're too intent on forcing a relationship to grow, you'll be missing out on what's going on.
Have fun and let the love grow on its own.
And while you're having fun, don't forget his need to enjoy himself as well.
If you've already begun to pester him because he's not romantic enough or you're pointing out that he forgot to do something or other, you might be putting a strain on him.
Take it easy and look at the qualities he has instead of tripping over the little flaws.
When he's having fun with you and he feels great about the time he spends with you, he'll come to realize that he's falling in love with you.