Getting back at your ex after a break up may turn out to be a good move to eventually win your ex back.
Sounds ironic but if you've tried everything but still getting little or no attention at all from your ex, then it's about time to turn the table so to speak.
Make your ex the one who wants you back by doing these 5 things to get back at your ex and you'll find that these are also effective ways to get your ex back.
1- Stop showing weakness.
Hide your desperateness and be strong, not letting your ex see you begging.
The more that you ask for attention the more that you will be ignored .
Let them see that you have moved on and that you could careless without them.
They will then realized that they, themselves haven't moved on.
2- Try not to call them even if you wanted to.
It may appear to be counterintuitive if your main objective is to patch up things but it is an effective way to get back at your ex which will result in getting him or her back.
Let them long for you.
Taking a break from your ex and minimizing communication will make him or her realized how important you were.
3- Stop being stubborn and be flexible.
If you are still in the process, give your ex time to pick his or her things up.
Do not impose a deadline.
Try to be lenient.
Listen and sympathize.
Your ex will be amazed at this good side of you that might initiate a new line of communication.
A friendly chat could be a start.
4- Socialize with your friends.
Stop being a loner.
Go out with your buddies and do the things that you enjoy doing without your ex.
Be happy.
This will show your ex that you have indeed  moved on after your break up.
5- Finally, Just be yourself.
Yes...
the one with whom your ex fell in love with.
Showing your ex your old self will unconsciously let him or her remember the things they liked about you.
This will make your ex fall in love with you again.