How Do You Trust a Relationship?
Sometimes you make a friendship with someone that you think is right on track.
You think the same, you almost dress alike and you talk the same talk.
You are thinking "this is it" this person understands me and I have made a friend for life! But low and behold, they betray you.
What a blow to your mind! You are disappointed and can't understand what happened.
Either they said something about you that was cruel or they told a secret you just didn't want anyone to know about.
You are devastated and you can't believe this happened bu it did.
Tricksters Then you meet people that continue to try to trip you up.
They bring you into conversations that get you trusting them.
You fall for it every time again, tripping you up.
Some people think they are so smart they can maneuver words so as to make you think they are for you, but as soon as they leave your presence, they are off telling on you like a child.
Meanwhile you are thinking, I really like them and I want to know them more, but it's a fake! They keep tricking you, I call them tricksters and they come in all forms.
From dating to confidence you are their targets, believe me, they are not just doing it to you,they are doing it to everyone, it's just how far you let they go with it.
The Phonies Then you have the sincere people that you have this deep feeling they are not telling the truth.
they say all the right things to you, what you want to hear, but deep down inside they are judging you, then telling other people how you engaged in their boasting about you to them.
How do you handle it? Oh it's so frustrating, in your heart you know you mean well and just need to have a friend in someone.
But let me tell you this, something that I learned after many years of this going around and around.
Just trust God.
He loves you and when the question of someones behavior comes into your mind, go to Him for how to handle it.
I can guarantee, if you trust God and ask Him, even in the Little things that you find He may not be interested in, He will help you.
Pray on everything and your life will change, even the people you hang around with will, suddenly God helps you find peace and guides you to right earthly relationships.
You think the same, you almost dress alike and you talk the same talk.
You are thinking "this is it" this person understands me and I have made a friend for life! But low and behold, they betray you.
What a blow to your mind! You are disappointed and can't understand what happened.
Either they said something about you that was cruel or they told a secret you just didn't want anyone to know about.
You are devastated and you can't believe this happened bu it did.
Tricksters Then you meet people that continue to try to trip you up.
They bring you into conversations that get you trusting them.
You fall for it every time again, tripping you up.
Some people think they are so smart they can maneuver words so as to make you think they are for you, but as soon as they leave your presence, they are off telling on you like a child.
Meanwhile you are thinking, I really like them and I want to know them more, but it's a fake! They keep tricking you, I call them tricksters and they come in all forms.
From dating to confidence you are their targets, believe me, they are not just doing it to you,they are doing it to everyone, it's just how far you let they go with it.
The Phonies Then you have the sincere people that you have this deep feeling they are not telling the truth.
they say all the right things to you, what you want to hear, but deep down inside they are judging you, then telling other people how you engaged in their boasting about you to them.
How do you handle it? Oh it's so frustrating, in your heart you know you mean well and just need to have a friend in someone.
But let me tell you this, something that I learned after many years of this going around and around.
Just trust God.
He loves you and when the question of someones behavior comes into your mind, go to Him for how to handle it.
I can guarantee, if you trust God and ask Him, even in the Little things that you find He may not be interested in, He will help you.
Pray on everything and your life will change, even the people you hang around with will, suddenly God helps you find peace and guides you to right earthly relationships.
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