Would you believe that about 95% of relationships that have broken up could have been saved? When your relationship seems to be going down the tubes and you are trying to save it, keep that figure in mind.
You don't have to let it fail if you know the correct tactics to use to save it.
You only need one person who wants to save the relationship to get things going.
If you have just broke up you need to back off from your ex for now and leave them alone for a few weeks at least.
Stopping any contact will give them time to think through the break up and make sense of it.
They are probably angry and confused about things.
Even you need to take time off for the same reasons.
Are you thinking clearly now? Probably not, that's way you need time off.
Once you have cleared your head and have got this out of your system, you will be able to think much clearer.
Clearer thinking will help you formulate a plan for getting your ex back the right way.
You need to keep in mind that in order to get them back you must understand the reason for the break up itself.
Understanding this will help you overcome any issues that may get in the way.
Hopefully whatever anger you may have had is gone because you do not want to argue or get into a fight with your ex because you can write off your efforts if you do.
You need to be humble and apologetic if you were the cause of this break up.
When you get your first chance to talk with them you must apologize to them and mean it.
They may not accept at first but give them time.
Don't bring up anything that will make them angry at you and make this first conversation short.
You can find a lot of information out there on how to get your ex back.
You should read some of this to help prevent you from making mistakes and ruining your chances.