Does Romance Have A Place In Dating?Part 4
How to create a setting that automatically creates and amplifies attraction
We just talked about how most guys either have no clue about romance, or they use it too much...which screws up everything for them.
There is one aspect of romance that I have found very useful to know more about and use. It's the concept of how to create a setting that will create more of a feeling of attraction inside of the woman that you are with.
Warning: What I'm about to share with you is not a magic bullet. It's no substitute for a cocky, funny personality and great skills. Using this alone will not make you successful with women.
With that said... I've found that there are a few things you can do in your immediate environment to "accelerate the mood", so to speak, when you are with a woman.
Women have very active senses... usually much more so than men.
If you have already sparked the attraction between you and her, introducing certain sensory stimulus will usually increase the attraction, and can lead to a more, shall we say "physical" demonstration of that attraction.
OK, let's say that you've had a fun night out with your girl (and of course, because you read Double Your Dating you knew where to take her that was fun and inexpensive) and you're back at your place. (Of course, she came inside because you learned how to get her to come in from the book too... right?)
And then you use the Kiss Test, which you learned when you visited my web site... and you've just kissed for the first time. Now what?
Well, most guys make the huge mistake of trying to grope the poor girl... which, of course leads to the inevitable "I think that we're moving a little fast. Let's take things slower." (Translation: "None for you tonight, and if you try that again, none for you anytime in the next 10 dates.")
Instead, try this:
After that first kiss, pull back and look into her eyes and say, "Yum." Then stand up and say, "Let me see if I can do something about this setting" in a fun, smooth, kind-of suspenseful tone of voice.
Here's the recipe:
1) A few candles
2) Some incense
3) A glass of wine (if you both drink and are of legal age)
4) Sade's - Greatest Hits on low
I know it sounds simple, but let me explain the recipe now that you know the ingredients.
Remember the formula "Two steps forward, one step back" that I often talk about? Mix up these ingredients with that concept... and Viola! More and more and more attraction.
You probably don't need to learn how to light candles, open wine, and play music. If you do, refer to the instructions that come with the products.
We just talked about how most guys either have no clue about romance, or they use it too much...which screws up everything for them.
There is one aspect of romance that I have found very useful to know more about and use. It's the concept of how to create a setting that will create more of a feeling of attraction inside of the woman that you are with.
Warning: What I'm about to share with you is not a magic bullet. It's no substitute for a cocky, funny personality and great skills. Using this alone will not make you successful with women.
With that said... I've found that there are a few things you can do in your immediate environment to "accelerate the mood", so to speak, when you are with a woman.
Women have very active senses... usually much more so than men.
If you have already sparked the attraction between you and her, introducing certain sensory stimulus will usually increase the attraction, and can lead to a more, shall we say "physical" demonstration of that attraction.
OK, let's say that you've had a fun night out with your girl (and of course, because you read Double Your Dating you knew where to take her that was fun and inexpensive) and you're back at your place. (Of course, she came inside because you learned how to get her to come in from the book too... right?)
And then you use the Kiss Test, which you learned when you visited my web site... and you've just kissed for the first time. Now what?
Well, most guys make the huge mistake of trying to grope the poor girl... which, of course leads to the inevitable "I think that we're moving a little fast. Let's take things slower." (Translation: "None for you tonight, and if you try that again, none for you anytime in the next 10 dates.")
Instead, try this:
After that first kiss, pull back and look into her eyes and say, "Yum." Then stand up and say, "Let me see if I can do something about this setting" in a fun, smooth, kind-of suspenseful tone of voice.
Here's the recipe:
1) A few candles
2) Some incense
3) A glass of wine (if you both drink and are of legal age)
4) Sade's - Greatest Hits on low
I know it sounds simple, but let me explain the recipe now that you know the ingredients.
Remember the formula "Two steps forward, one step back" that I often talk about? Mix up these ingredients with that concept... and Viola! More and more and more attraction.
You probably don't need to learn how to light candles, open wine, and play music. If you do, refer to the instructions that come with the products.
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