It is obvious that you will feel devastated and miserable after a breakup.
But it is dangerous to wallow in self pity and despair while your ex is out there probably getting on with their life! The most important thing for you to do is to stop procrastinating and doing nothing to try and get your ex back.
These tactics will help you to be successful and blissfully happy in just days! Boost your self esteem...
This will lower your stress levels and get you feeling good again.
Join a gym and get that body into super shape.
You will need all the help you can to attract your ex and make them remember the fantastic time you had together.
Pamper yourself and get gorgeous.
Don't be put off by your ex's behavior...
Even though your ex behaves like they hate the very sight of you, don't let it bother you.
In fact be happy that your ex is not indifferent and cold and obviously still feels something for you.
No communication is good for some time...
Have no contact with your ex for a while.
This will give both of you the space you need to take stock of the situation.
Besides your ex should have the chance of missing you.
Sooner or later you ex will realize that they have to manage without your help and will begin to resent that fact.
Meet up with mutual friends...
Bring back the excitement when you and your ex first saw each other in the first phase of your relationship by "staging" similar scenes.
The sight of you looking stunningly attractive will surely bring back memories.
Change your behavior...
If you have been guilty of ignoring your ex's passion for sports and other activities in the past, make sure you show an interest in your ex's hobbies by being present at their games, music recitals, etc and watch their face light up! Show your ex that you are forgiving...
Nothing works better than starting on a clean slate.
If your ex knows that you have forgiven and forgotten the bitter past and are willing to start afresh, it helps in the healing process.
Let your ex know that no matter what - you are going to try and be happy.
Try and discuss the situation...
Give your ex the chance to explain.
Don't rush or press your ex to reconcile with you.
It would be a good idea to be friendly yet cool and independent.
Your ex is bound to want you back if they think they may lose you to another.