Repair a Marriage
First, let me start out by saying if you found this article out of need I can empathize with your situation.
In the recent past I was in a similar situation and decided to take matters into my own hands.
Any commitment you make requires effort from both parties to be successful.
One of the critical factors involved in repairing a marriage can be summed up by asking yourself and your partner this question; is this the person I want to be married to.
If both of you answer yes then there is a mathematical certainty that the relationship can be repaired.
Commitment 1.
The trait of sincere and steadfast fixity of purpose.
Your personal nature must be changed and your thoughts need to be focused entirely on having the perfect marriage.
The subconscious mind is unable to distinguish reality versus perception, and therefore if you see yourself in the type of marriage that is beneficial for the both of you, your perception will become reality.
2.
The act of binding yourself (intellectually or emotionally) to a course of action.
The capacity to attract and hold the thoughts in your mind every day will be of the utmost importance.
This will be one of the most difficult undertakings required of you since the mind tends to wander whenever we think.
Daydreaming sessions every day without fail with detailed visions of how you want your marriage to be is of vital importance.
Some examples of thoughts to feed your mind could be: Serving your loved one breakfast in bed; bathing them in the tub filled with scented bath salts and gently washing their hair along with candles and soft music for ambiance.
After this is done join them in the tub (one of my favorites); for men it could be as simple as purchasing some roses at your local grocery store plucking the petals off and spreading them out over the bed when both of you feel frisky.
Men, get the brush out and brush your woman's hair when you are sitting around watching television.
These are just a few ideas you should be thinking about on a daily basis as well as acting upon them.
The Person This is a difficult decision to make as there are many variables in the present as well as the past and future.
Any obstacle that hinders a marriage can be surmounted as long as the offended party can rise above the offense and not harbor any ill thoughts.
Given time a person changes and sometimes even for the worse, this could be attitude or health.
Are you willing to stick with them through the good times as well as the bad? If you can truly see yourself with this person for the duration of your life then the choice should be an easy one.
Marriages Can Be Repaired As long as both parties agree that there is a future with each other and are willing to take the necessary actions then there is a certainty that the marriage can be repaired.
Many possibilities to repair a marriage exist within our society.
There are marriage retreats, marriage counseling, marriage workshops, books, etc.
A point to remember in all of these systems is that you both must have only positive thoughts on a daily basis for any of these systems to be successful.
Just as 2+2=4 these positive thoughts will equal success.
Conversely if you are trying to get 4 as a result then 2+2+2=6, the extra 2 being negative thoughts, clearly not the results you expected.
Conclusion You can repair a marriage as long as both parties are willing to participate in the activities involved to strengthen the relationship.
Commitment to your spouse as being the love of your life and feel it in your heart, mind and soul.
Putting in the extra effort to do simple little things that count.
Do not become complacent, but get creative in ways to surprise your spouse or your partner.
Lastly, the most important thing you can do is for the both of you attract and hold the thoughts; actually see yourself and your spouse doing all these nice things together and for each other, every day without fail.
As W.
Clement Stone said "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.
In the recent past I was in a similar situation and decided to take matters into my own hands.
Any commitment you make requires effort from both parties to be successful.
One of the critical factors involved in repairing a marriage can be summed up by asking yourself and your partner this question; is this the person I want to be married to.
If both of you answer yes then there is a mathematical certainty that the relationship can be repaired.
Commitment 1.
The trait of sincere and steadfast fixity of purpose.
Your personal nature must be changed and your thoughts need to be focused entirely on having the perfect marriage.
The subconscious mind is unable to distinguish reality versus perception, and therefore if you see yourself in the type of marriage that is beneficial for the both of you, your perception will become reality.
2.
The act of binding yourself (intellectually or emotionally) to a course of action.
The capacity to attract and hold the thoughts in your mind every day will be of the utmost importance.
This will be one of the most difficult undertakings required of you since the mind tends to wander whenever we think.
Daydreaming sessions every day without fail with detailed visions of how you want your marriage to be is of vital importance.
Some examples of thoughts to feed your mind could be: Serving your loved one breakfast in bed; bathing them in the tub filled with scented bath salts and gently washing their hair along with candles and soft music for ambiance.
After this is done join them in the tub (one of my favorites); for men it could be as simple as purchasing some roses at your local grocery store plucking the petals off and spreading them out over the bed when both of you feel frisky.
Men, get the brush out and brush your woman's hair when you are sitting around watching television.
These are just a few ideas you should be thinking about on a daily basis as well as acting upon them.
The Person This is a difficult decision to make as there are many variables in the present as well as the past and future.
Any obstacle that hinders a marriage can be surmounted as long as the offended party can rise above the offense and not harbor any ill thoughts.
Given time a person changes and sometimes even for the worse, this could be attitude or health.
Are you willing to stick with them through the good times as well as the bad? If you can truly see yourself with this person for the duration of your life then the choice should be an easy one.
Marriages Can Be Repaired As long as both parties agree that there is a future with each other and are willing to take the necessary actions then there is a certainty that the marriage can be repaired.
Many possibilities to repair a marriage exist within our society.
There are marriage retreats, marriage counseling, marriage workshops, books, etc.
A point to remember in all of these systems is that you both must have only positive thoughts on a daily basis for any of these systems to be successful.
Just as 2+2=4 these positive thoughts will equal success.
Conversely if you are trying to get 4 as a result then 2+2+2=6, the extra 2 being negative thoughts, clearly not the results you expected.
Conclusion You can repair a marriage as long as both parties are willing to participate in the activities involved to strengthen the relationship.
Commitment to your spouse as being the love of your life and feel it in your heart, mind and soul.
Putting in the extra effort to do simple little things that count.
Do not become complacent, but get creative in ways to surprise your spouse or your partner.
Lastly, the most important thing you can do is for the both of you attract and hold the thoughts; actually see yourself and your spouse doing all these nice things together and for each other, every day without fail.
As W.
Clement Stone said "Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.
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