Sexy Plus Size Clothes - Do They Exist?
Lets talk about sexy plus size clothes.
Do they even exist? Can you find them somewhere in the flooding number of clothes designed for slim, sporty people and advertised by such people? If you are willing to use your own common sense to investigate this matter than you can be relieved - you can stay positive.
If you are using common sense that is supplied to you by TV or catalogs or whatever thing that contains advertisement, the you would have to say that nothing like sexy plus size clothes exists, because everyone and everything is showing you, that there are no fat people in the world, that you should be ashamed of how you look, because everyone is slim and beautiful and who knows what else has he or she better than you do.
Well, guess what - it is just a play and your mind is being influenced - you saw that marvelous revelation coming, huh? But aside from some obvious things what else useful can I say to the topic? Well, not much.
Lets say that the problem is not if sexy plus size clothes exist, but how to find out, what other people will consider sexy (no matter the size) and how to find out something, that will make you feel good while you wear it.
Because each and every one of us is different and everyone has his/hers own set of preferences - so someone actually prefers plus sized characters (as my girlfriend does, thanks god in heavens) So what is "sexy"? It is mainly matter of personal taste, but we can definitely think about some things that are not - and guess what - it is not so much related to size, but more to trends in clothing, standards and custom.
That does not necessarily mean that everything, that would look sexy on slim person will look the same way on a plus sized person (a guy in close-fitting T-shirt looks good when he has muscles but he will look like a meatloaf when he is actually overweight.
So it is always about feelings - if you feel good and comfortable, you look much better.
And if you are not crazy, you will not pick something completely crazy and you will look just fine.
But I think that maybe you already knew that, didn't you:) Lets sum it up - you do not have to worry too much about trends or publicly accepted stereotypes, you can just use them to your advantage if you want to or ignore them.
It is only about how you feel and how you would like to appeal to other people - it is more based on your opinion, what you will consider to be sexy plus size clothes, than on anything else...
Do they even exist? Can you find them somewhere in the flooding number of clothes designed for slim, sporty people and advertised by such people? If you are willing to use your own common sense to investigate this matter than you can be relieved - you can stay positive.
If you are using common sense that is supplied to you by TV or catalogs or whatever thing that contains advertisement, the you would have to say that nothing like sexy plus size clothes exists, because everyone and everything is showing you, that there are no fat people in the world, that you should be ashamed of how you look, because everyone is slim and beautiful and who knows what else has he or she better than you do.
Well, guess what - it is just a play and your mind is being influenced - you saw that marvelous revelation coming, huh? But aside from some obvious things what else useful can I say to the topic? Well, not much.
Lets say that the problem is not if sexy plus size clothes exist, but how to find out, what other people will consider sexy (no matter the size) and how to find out something, that will make you feel good while you wear it.
Because each and every one of us is different and everyone has his/hers own set of preferences - so someone actually prefers plus sized characters (as my girlfriend does, thanks god in heavens) So what is "sexy"? It is mainly matter of personal taste, but we can definitely think about some things that are not - and guess what - it is not so much related to size, but more to trends in clothing, standards and custom.
That does not necessarily mean that everything, that would look sexy on slim person will look the same way on a plus sized person (a guy in close-fitting T-shirt looks good when he has muscles but he will look like a meatloaf when he is actually overweight.
So it is always about feelings - if you feel good and comfortable, you look much better.
And if you are not crazy, you will not pick something completely crazy and you will look just fine.
But I think that maybe you already knew that, didn't you:) Lets sum it up - you do not have to worry too much about trends or publicly accepted stereotypes, you can just use them to your advantage if you want to or ignore them.
It is only about how you feel and how you would like to appeal to other people - it is more based on your opinion, what you will consider to be sexy plus size clothes, than on anything else...
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