Top Signs That You Are Head Over Heels
The initial few months in any new romance are joyful, exciting... and a little scary. You think about what is possible, if this partner is the perfect mate, and if the relationship will be everlasting. While I am unable to tell you what destiny has in store for your romantic life, I can help you look for the symptoms that someone is stealing your heart.
At the onset, falling in love is sort of like a drug. You enjoy a feeling of euphoria or a feeling of boundless joy. This feeling has been likened to how you feel after consuming large amounts of sugar or after a good exercise routine. You can't stop thinking about the person almost every minute and you want to find out everything you can about them. You try to spend as much time with them as possible, and the more time you have in their company, the happier you are.
An aspect of the beginning stage of falling in love is an elevated awareness about how you are perceived by your love interest. You worry about them liking most of your looks, and whether they might find you good looking. You also worry about how they view your personality. You hope to be good looking, likeable, and desirable to your love interest in all things. To reciprocate, you consider them more suitable than any competing possible partners. Minor things about that special person, details you would not normally notice, suddenly seem extremely intriguing.
As the romance goes on, the euphoria lets up. With time, the relationship finds its way into a comfortable pattern, and from time to time tensions take place. Despite how scary that might appear, here is where you sort out the real emotions. Minor daily things and happenstances will bring to mind the other person, linked to shared fond memories. You will feel the need to safeguard your significant other from harm, both physical and emotional. Feeling true love means that you are willing to take their hurt from them and bear it yourself. You will consider their wishes and desires when you make decisions. For example, you might change your traditional special recipe to suit his taste just to please him, or suggest to take her to a concert you really don't care for, just to see her eyes light up.
Finally, the surest sign that you are all the way, can't-help-yourself, passionately in love is unconditional acceptance. You certainly can't be expected to enjoy every aspect of their character, but you can deal with their 'blemishes' as a piece of what makes them that desirable person you care so very much about. Even when you have a spat with your significant other, you still would not trade them in for a new person. You want to spend more of your quality time with them instead of anyone else, and you feel like the most lovable version of yourself when you meet. Holy Cow! It must be love!
At the onset, falling in love is sort of like a drug. You enjoy a feeling of euphoria or a feeling of boundless joy. This feeling has been likened to how you feel after consuming large amounts of sugar or after a good exercise routine. You can't stop thinking about the person almost every minute and you want to find out everything you can about them. You try to spend as much time with them as possible, and the more time you have in their company, the happier you are.
An aspect of the beginning stage of falling in love is an elevated awareness about how you are perceived by your love interest. You worry about them liking most of your looks, and whether they might find you good looking. You also worry about how they view your personality. You hope to be good looking, likeable, and desirable to your love interest in all things. To reciprocate, you consider them more suitable than any competing possible partners. Minor things about that special person, details you would not normally notice, suddenly seem extremely intriguing.
As the romance goes on, the euphoria lets up. With time, the relationship finds its way into a comfortable pattern, and from time to time tensions take place. Despite how scary that might appear, here is where you sort out the real emotions. Minor daily things and happenstances will bring to mind the other person, linked to shared fond memories. You will feel the need to safeguard your significant other from harm, both physical and emotional. Feeling true love means that you are willing to take their hurt from them and bear it yourself. You will consider their wishes and desires when you make decisions. For example, you might change your traditional special recipe to suit his taste just to please him, or suggest to take her to a concert you really don't care for, just to see her eyes light up.
Finally, the surest sign that you are all the way, can't-help-yourself, passionately in love is unconditional acceptance. You certainly can't be expected to enjoy every aspect of their character, but you can deal with their 'blemishes' as a piece of what makes them that desirable person you care so very much about. Even when you have a spat with your significant other, you still would not trade them in for a new person. You want to spend more of your quality time with them instead of anyone else, and you feel like the most lovable version of yourself when you meet. Holy Cow! It must be love!
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