What Men Want In A Woman: A Cold-Hearted Woman
What men want is a woman who knows how to cold-hearted when she has to help her man get something done.
A cold-hearted woman in general, someone who simply is unable to feel compassion, is unlikable.
They are usually good leaders and managers, though.
What if you could be a good manager of your marriage by employing a lack of compassion to help your man toughen up when he's feeling weak? He would respect you more and, believe it or not, love you more for being tough on him.
Here's three ways you could do this.
1.
"Harden up" A way that you could show your lack of compassion is by telling him to harden up.
You probably will have heard the term that guys give to other guys who are weak (the first word is "soft" and the next work is a synonym for a rooster).
Guys will tell other guys to harden up if he's soft.
If you tell your man to do this, it might surprise him initially.
Usually, he gets that sort of treatment from his mates.
If you do it, then where will he go to for his compassion? What's unique about a woman doing it is that she cares more about her husband, so he'll understand that she's putting her femininity aside for a while, just so she can help him get the job done.
2.
Control him Some guys are simply undisciplined.
Heck, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the most disciplined of guys out there.
In my younger days, I was a big fan of porn.
It got so bad that I was watching it on my laptop every day.
When I got married, my wife stopped me from watching it by making me help her do other things.
Whether it be cleaning around the house or going out, I was slowly desensitized from it.
I really appreciate her for doing that.
3.
Join him A good way to kill two birds with one stone is to put yourself into the arena as well.
Have you got something you want to get done, but you're simply too lazy to do it? Turn your husband into an accountability partner.
Report to him at the end of each day to tell him if you're any closer to your goal.
He can do the same for you and you can basically look out for one another.
This way, you can be as harsh as you want, as long as you let him be harsh to you.
What men want in a woman is a heart that's as cold as ice that also has a built in thermostat.
We like our women warm, but if she can control that thermostat for good, her man will appreciate her for that.
A cold-hearted woman in general, someone who simply is unable to feel compassion, is unlikable.
They are usually good leaders and managers, though.
What if you could be a good manager of your marriage by employing a lack of compassion to help your man toughen up when he's feeling weak? He would respect you more and, believe it or not, love you more for being tough on him.
Here's three ways you could do this.
1.
"Harden up" A way that you could show your lack of compassion is by telling him to harden up.
You probably will have heard the term that guys give to other guys who are weak (the first word is "soft" and the next work is a synonym for a rooster).
Guys will tell other guys to harden up if he's soft.
If you tell your man to do this, it might surprise him initially.
Usually, he gets that sort of treatment from his mates.
If you do it, then where will he go to for his compassion? What's unique about a woman doing it is that she cares more about her husband, so he'll understand that she's putting her femininity aside for a while, just so she can help him get the job done.
2.
Control him Some guys are simply undisciplined.
Heck, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the most disciplined of guys out there.
In my younger days, I was a big fan of porn.
It got so bad that I was watching it on my laptop every day.
When I got married, my wife stopped me from watching it by making me help her do other things.
Whether it be cleaning around the house or going out, I was slowly desensitized from it.
I really appreciate her for doing that.
3.
Join him A good way to kill two birds with one stone is to put yourself into the arena as well.
Have you got something you want to get done, but you're simply too lazy to do it? Turn your husband into an accountability partner.
Report to him at the end of each day to tell him if you're any closer to your goal.
He can do the same for you and you can basically look out for one another.
This way, you can be as harsh as you want, as long as you let him be harsh to you.
What men want in a woman is a heart that's as cold as ice that also has a built in thermostat.
We like our women warm, but if she can control that thermostat for good, her man will appreciate her for that.
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