If like attracts like why can't I attract someone to my life that is all that I want? Attracting a person to be in a relationship is not about going here and there and everywhere making yourself seen.
It isn't about going to every party and barbeque and concert and club.
It isn't about buying things for people.
If you are not living in a way that inspires them to meet up with you, they will not.
Let's take a look at what is oftentimes overlooked.
Here's the hard news, you are attracting the relationships you have been getting and if there are not any, you are attracting the 'absence' of them.
But it is in your control and that is a good thing.
There are things we are attracting but simply for one conversation or another do not let in.
People talk about self esteem and when one feels better about themselves, when there is a genuine appreciation and love for oneself, things seem to work wetter.
There is something at the core of what we know about ourselves that is wonderful and unfortunately we place a number of diminishing beliefs and limiting assumptions about life.
A little light on these usually has them dissolve.
If you are not vibrating at the same frequency as the person you desire to be with your paths will never cross.
Having said that, I give you the secret to having the type of relationship you are wanting.
This might sound a bit odd, but if you have been trying to have a relationship, or have wanted to be asked out on a date, or maybe to have someone just show some interest in you and that is not happening then this is for sure.
You have been doing all that you needed to do in order to not get what you want.
First stop every single conversation you have that speaks for the person you don't want to be.
For instance stop saying 'no one likes me', or "I'm not good enough" or "I'm not attractive enough", or "something must be wrong with me" or on and on.
What you say creates your reality.
You may not think so; law of attraction clearly reveals this to be the case.
Think of yourself as an architect and you are designing your reality by your words alone.
Most have no idea of the power of the speaking.
Next step is a bit more difficult, stop engaging in activities that suggest you must do things to get a person in your life, or be noticed.
Here is the good news, if you've been working hard, if you have longed to be in a happy loving relationship, then you have built a force around you so powerful for that to happen that all you really need to do is relax a bit.
Spend sometime allowing the manifestation of it all to show up.
Say to yourself, "The work is done; I'm going to let the universe I'm cradled in take over now.
" "It's all going to work out as I notice how special I am.
" To allow the natural flow of your desire to come your way requires that you simply create the conditions for the rendezvousing of like people to flow down a path of no resistance.
That condition becomes real and gets stronger as you reach for better feeling thoughts, that you seek better feelings of happiness.
Joy is a state of freedom and no resistance; sustain it in everything you are doing.
'Be' the joy you seek in having a wonderful relationship.
If you can trust that you are divine in nature, if you can do this, the love inside you will melt away whatever is there and you'll create magical things to occur.
Be with everyone as though they were special.
That makes you special.
Be with everyone as though they matter.
That makes you someone that matters.
Be with everyone as though you are interested, that makes you interesting.
Sincerely become one who wishes everyone have a wonderful relationship.
Refuse to be unhappy, seek joy, that's what others are looking for.
Have every relationship you have be rich and admirable.