Break-ups are extremely painful for everyone involved, which is why people often make so many mistakes when trying to keep in touch with their ex after a break-up.
Although you may want your ex back here and now, begging, pleading and stalking her will only push her further away! To win her back, you need an alternative, more subtle approach - and in this article, I reveal a post-break-up contact strategy I myself used to get my own ex back in just 17 days! First of all, if she broke up with you, then she is probably afraid that next time you call her, you will once again start begging her to come back or trying to force her into it.
Believe it or not, this doesn't show her how much she means to you - if anything, she'll just seeing you as a deranged stalker! Instead, the best form of contact for the first two weeks after a break-up is no contact whatsoever.
For the next 14 days, it is essential that you literally vanish insofar as your ex is concerned.
Do not contact her in any manner and don't call her back if she does.
Don't worry that she might think you're no longer interested - in fact, if she thinks that, so much the better because your objective is to make her start wondering whether you still care.
After some time, she will grow curious enough to give you a call (which you shouldn't return if the two week period hasn't passed yet).
Paradoxically, the less interest you show in your ex after a break-up, the more she will want to hear from you! After the two-week "No Contact" period has passed, your ex will be at her wit's end - and that's when you finally give her a call! Feel free to picture an image of her jumping in her chair when her phone rings and she sees your caller ID - that's what will usually happen, even though she will never admit it to you.
By now, she will be so curious and frustrated with the lack of attention, that she WILL answer (or call you back if she can't).