You Broke Up With Your Boyfriend But Now You Want Him Back - What to Do If You Still Love Your Ex
If you broke up with your boyfriend but you want him back because you're still in love with him, it can be a tricky situation.
It isn't easy to tell someone you made a mistake, and that's in mundane situations.
When your heart is on the line, admitting you were wrong can be even tougher.
So what should you do if you still love your ex boyfriend and you want him to take you back? One, be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.
If you broke up with your ex boyfriend and some time has passed, you are probably now starting to remember the good things about the relationship and forgetting the bad.
Unless you really broke up with your boyfriend over something stupid, chances are that the problems will still be there if you get back together.
Make sure that you really are over the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.
Otherwise if you get back together with your ex boyfriend you are probably going to end up breaking up with him again a few months down the line.
Two, once you know you really do want your ex boyfriend back because you're still in love with him, it's time to figure out what he's up to.
If you have still been talking to your ex, it makes it easier to break the ice.
But if you haven't talked to him since the breakup, one of the best ways to make contact with your ex boyfriend is to talk to him on facebook, Myspace, or text message.
Even though you're still in love with your ex boyfriend, you have to give him time to get used to the idea of talking to you again.
Sending him a no-pressure text or email puts the ball in his court.
That way if you get a response back you know he wants to talk to you but you don't have to risk rejection immediately.
Three, you can "accidentally-on-purpose" run into your ex boyfriend and see his reaction.
If you know your ex boyfriend hangs out in certain places, get yourself all dolled up and put yourself in front of him.
When you see him, don't come on too strong.
You don't want him thinking it was a set-up because it might scare him off.
Instead, go into the meeting with the attitude of whatever happens, happens.
If he makes contact with you, great.
If he doesn't, you still put yourself in front of him, which will make him think about you again.
The best way to get back together with your ex boyfriend is to make him remember what he misses about you.
So any friendly, happy contact with him is good contact.
Even if it's just a wave across the room.
It isn't easy to tell someone you made a mistake, and that's in mundane situations.
When your heart is on the line, admitting you were wrong can be even tougher.
So what should you do if you still love your ex boyfriend and you want him to take you back? One, be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.
If you broke up with your ex boyfriend and some time has passed, you are probably now starting to remember the good things about the relationship and forgetting the bad.
Unless you really broke up with your boyfriend over something stupid, chances are that the problems will still be there if you get back together.
Make sure that you really are over the reasons you broke up with him in the first place.
Otherwise if you get back together with your ex boyfriend you are probably going to end up breaking up with him again a few months down the line.
Two, once you know you really do want your ex boyfriend back because you're still in love with him, it's time to figure out what he's up to.
If you have still been talking to your ex, it makes it easier to break the ice.
But if you haven't talked to him since the breakup, one of the best ways to make contact with your ex boyfriend is to talk to him on facebook, Myspace, or text message.
Even though you're still in love with your ex boyfriend, you have to give him time to get used to the idea of talking to you again.
Sending him a no-pressure text or email puts the ball in his court.
That way if you get a response back you know he wants to talk to you but you don't have to risk rejection immediately.
Three, you can "accidentally-on-purpose" run into your ex boyfriend and see his reaction.
If you know your ex boyfriend hangs out in certain places, get yourself all dolled up and put yourself in front of him.
When you see him, don't come on too strong.
You don't want him thinking it was a set-up because it might scare him off.
Instead, go into the meeting with the attitude of whatever happens, happens.
If he makes contact with you, great.
If he doesn't, you still put yourself in front of him, which will make him think about you again.
The best way to get back together with your ex boyfriend is to make him remember what he misses about you.
So any friendly, happy contact with him is good contact.
Even if it's just a wave across the room.
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