Dating Advice Break Up It’S Not You It’S Me
This line is the worst line a girl could ever give a guy. When someone says these dreaded words to you, you'll feel like the world has collapsed; like the weight on your shoulder has been lifted only because this time, you already feel like you're buried 6 feet below the ground. It's like you're already dead.
But you have to bounce back from this because unlike what you think, it's not really the end of the world. So here are some dating tips for men who have just gotten out of a relationship. And remember, if you need more tips, I'm always willing to give.
1. Take it easy. If you want to take a break from the dating scene, feel free to do so. You should not feel compelled to dive into the pool immediately, but you also have to remember that right about now, the sex ratio for the entire world population is 101 males is to 100 females. And you wouldn't want to be the only one left without someone to hold. So go ahead and heal your broken heart, but it has to be a considerable time span.
2. She doesn't have to be the first to know. Once you're ready to date other girls, focus on doing just that. Don't think about "her" because "she" is already a thing of the past. Don't inform her that you're dating already because she lost all the right to know about your schedule when she broke your heart (can I get an amen up in here?).
3. Meet everyone, not just someone. You have options so don't rush. You can meet women at the local bar you frequent, there are girls in your office, there are girls in the park, and there are girls everywhere! So talk to everyone.
4. Be interested and be interesting. Show you are there at that moment when you're actually talking to all these girls. Listen and talk back. Apart from that, you also have to say something about yourself. You may think you're boring, but you can't say that because girls also run out of things to say (especially those who are not self-centered).
5. Thou shalt not mention thy ex. Need I say more?
6. Follow up. If you promised her you'd call, then don't be a jerk. CALL! I know it's weird if you don't even like her, but in that case why did you even say you'd call? That's just lame, man. Now if you really want to call and you think she's not interested, you still have to call. Because you promised. Just tell her that you had a good time, and that you hope you guys could go out again. And when you put the phone down, go on your knees and pray for luck.
7. Read this ([http://daygamedating.com.au/blog/?p=1423]). Everything else that you need to know about dating a girl and preparing for your date has been covered (I'm that efficient, people).
So good luck, God speed, and may the force be ever in your favor.
But you have to bounce back from this because unlike what you think, it's not really the end of the world. So here are some dating tips for men who have just gotten out of a relationship. And remember, if you need more tips, I'm always willing to give.
1. Take it easy. If you want to take a break from the dating scene, feel free to do so. You should not feel compelled to dive into the pool immediately, but you also have to remember that right about now, the sex ratio for the entire world population is 101 males is to 100 females. And you wouldn't want to be the only one left without someone to hold. So go ahead and heal your broken heart, but it has to be a considerable time span.
2. She doesn't have to be the first to know. Once you're ready to date other girls, focus on doing just that. Don't think about "her" because "she" is already a thing of the past. Don't inform her that you're dating already because she lost all the right to know about your schedule when she broke your heart (can I get an amen up in here?).
3. Meet everyone, not just someone. You have options so don't rush. You can meet women at the local bar you frequent, there are girls in your office, there are girls in the park, and there are girls everywhere! So talk to everyone.
4. Be interested and be interesting. Show you are there at that moment when you're actually talking to all these girls. Listen and talk back. Apart from that, you also have to say something about yourself. You may think you're boring, but you can't say that because girls also run out of things to say (especially those who are not self-centered).
5. Thou shalt not mention thy ex. Need I say more?
6. Follow up. If you promised her you'd call, then don't be a jerk. CALL! I know it's weird if you don't even like her, but in that case why did you even say you'd call? That's just lame, man. Now if you really want to call and you think she's not interested, you still have to call. Because you promised. Just tell her that you had a good time, and that you hope you guys could go out again. And when you put the phone down, go on your knees and pray for luck.
7. Read this ([http://daygamedating.com.au/blog/?p=1423]). Everything else that you need to know about dating a girl and preparing for your date has been covered (I'm that efficient, people).
So good luck, God speed, and may the force be ever in your favor.
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