My Wife Told Me She"s Not In Love With Me Anymore! Save Your Marriage Before It"s Too Late!
Probably some of the most painful words a man can hear come from the woman he loves telling him she's not in love with him anymore.
My marriage nearly ended a few years ago when my wife delivered this bombshell.
I can tell you from experience and from the stories of thousands of other couples that you can save your marriage even if your wife doesn't want to.
You must take action quickly though before it's too late.
The first thing to be aware of is avoiding the common mistakes that nearly every guy makes that will doom your chances to save your marriage.
Things like begging and pleading, yelling, making threats, constant phone calls or text messages, sending gifts, promises to change, apologies, using the kids as a weapon, or the excessive use of drugs and alcohol will all backfire on you! I guarantee it! The more you reach out to her, the more she will pull away.
It's human nature.
What's my point? That probably everything you have been doing up to this point has been the wrong approach.
Don't beat yourself up too bad.
Most people don't have a ready-made plan after having been told that their marriage is over! The good news is that your marriage can most likely still be saved.
As long as you haven't been abusing your wife or kids, most other problems can be worked through.
The key though is to take the focus off of yourselves.
That's right, you read that correctly! What do I mean by this? Well for years we have been taught and conditioned to believe that the key to resolving relationship problems is developing better communication skills.
I have learned that this is rarely the answer.
The focus should not be on the individuals but on the marriage almost as a 3rd person, as crazy as this might sound.
Here are 5 important steps that I learned.
They saved my marriage and have literally worked for thousands of others in the same position that you find yourself in:
My marriage nearly ended a few years ago when my wife delivered this bombshell.
I can tell you from experience and from the stories of thousands of other couples that you can save your marriage even if your wife doesn't want to.
You must take action quickly though before it's too late.
The first thing to be aware of is avoiding the common mistakes that nearly every guy makes that will doom your chances to save your marriage.
Things like begging and pleading, yelling, making threats, constant phone calls or text messages, sending gifts, promises to change, apologies, using the kids as a weapon, or the excessive use of drugs and alcohol will all backfire on you! I guarantee it! The more you reach out to her, the more she will pull away.
It's human nature.
What's my point? That probably everything you have been doing up to this point has been the wrong approach.
Don't beat yourself up too bad.
Most people don't have a ready-made plan after having been told that their marriage is over! The good news is that your marriage can most likely still be saved.
As long as you haven't been abusing your wife or kids, most other problems can be worked through.
The key though is to take the focus off of yourselves.
That's right, you read that correctly! What do I mean by this? Well for years we have been taught and conditioned to believe that the key to resolving relationship problems is developing better communication skills.
I have learned that this is rarely the answer.
The focus should not be on the individuals but on the marriage almost as a 3rd person, as crazy as this might sound.
Here are 5 important steps that I learned.
They saved my marriage and have literally worked for thousands of others in the same position that you find yourself in:
- You must be willing to take action now and not waste any more time!
- Do not get caught up in the blame game!
- Change your emotional state right now!
- Trust the plan even though it may seem like the complete opposite of what you would expect.
- Dedicate yourself 100% because if you don't take the lead then who will?
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