It is normal that there will be a struggle for every relationship.
Saving one is definitely not easy and there may come a point in time when you start asking yourself this question, "Is it really worth it?" The struggle continues and it will probably be helpful if you start t ask yourself a few questions.
By answering these questions, you may find yourself clearer about what you really want.
So, here are a few questions that you can ask yourself.
Who do you enjoy spending your time with? You can write down a list of people.
Write down anyone you can think of.
It can be your friends, families or anyone.
Most importantly, is your husband on the list? And if he is on your list, is he at the very top? And don't write him down just for the sake of writing him down.
Question yourself further.
Do you really enjoy spending time with him? Do you really enjoy spending time with him NOW? Or is it a thing of the past? Maybe you used to enjoy going out with him in the past but you no longer do so now? And when was the last time both of you spent time together, just having fun? Is it just recently? Or is it several months ago? Or even years? If it has been a long time since both of you have dated, there may be a problem in your relationship.
That is not to say that your relationship is not worth saving.
Ultimately, a relationship is a two way traffic.
If your husband is willing to work through the issues with you, then there are still hope in your relationship.