Wait! Don"t Tell Him You Love Him, Say This Instead!
Women love connection and part of feeling connected to a man is knowing how much feeling he carries in his heart for you.
We are thrilled to hear a man say things like, "I adore you with all my heart.
" Or "I can't tell you how much I love you today.
" Deep, strong loving feelings in his heart for us make us feel safe, comforted, and protected from the evils of society.
His love is like a cushiony barrier that holds us tight and makes us brave to go out and conquer the world.
Men also have big ambitions to conquer the world.
And our love helps that too.
But in a different way.
See, we love hearing about the depth and degree of love in a man's heart for us.
He likes to hear about how his love has added to our lives in small and huge ways.
Men are all about status.
It's been scientifically proven that men choose their words and styles of communication based on establishing status.
It could be status at work, with friends, in his family, and in his relationship with you.
When you can tell a man you love him because ______ (to be filled in with something he has done to improve your life and overall happiness) he feels like he has status in your eyes.
He feels that the person he values most in his life, values him over anyone else.
That makes him feel powerful and beyond confident.
He needs to feel the status in the relationship and that comes from feeling that his efforts matter and that he has the ability to give you a better life.
He wants to know that the beautiful woman in his life feels like he is a studly, capable, honorable man.
He needs to feel like he is your emotional safety net, your ticket to fun, your sex master, your favorite dishwasher and handyman...
So instead of saying you love him, say, "You're amazing.
I really appreciate you.
" The depth of his love for you will be written all over his boyish grin and in his over-the-moon, glassy eyes.
If you can reach a man's self-worth through showing him how worth loving he really is, you will be the necessary, key ingredient to his manhood.
That's not something he will just throw out the door when some other pretty, young thing smiles his direction.
Sending You Love, Kristina Marchant
We are thrilled to hear a man say things like, "I adore you with all my heart.
" Or "I can't tell you how much I love you today.
" Deep, strong loving feelings in his heart for us make us feel safe, comforted, and protected from the evils of society.
His love is like a cushiony barrier that holds us tight and makes us brave to go out and conquer the world.
Men also have big ambitions to conquer the world.
And our love helps that too.
But in a different way.
See, we love hearing about the depth and degree of love in a man's heart for us.
He likes to hear about how his love has added to our lives in small and huge ways.
Men are all about status.
It's been scientifically proven that men choose their words and styles of communication based on establishing status.
It could be status at work, with friends, in his family, and in his relationship with you.
When you can tell a man you love him because ______ (to be filled in with something he has done to improve your life and overall happiness) he feels like he has status in your eyes.
He feels that the person he values most in his life, values him over anyone else.
That makes him feel powerful and beyond confident.
He needs to feel the status in the relationship and that comes from feeling that his efforts matter and that he has the ability to give you a better life.
He wants to know that the beautiful woman in his life feels like he is a studly, capable, honorable man.
He needs to feel like he is your emotional safety net, your ticket to fun, your sex master, your favorite dishwasher and handyman...
So instead of saying you love him, say, "You're amazing.
I really appreciate you.
" The depth of his love for you will be written all over his boyish grin and in his over-the-moon, glassy eyes.
If you can reach a man's self-worth through showing him how worth loving he really is, you will be the necessary, key ingredient to his manhood.
That's not something he will just throw out the door when some other pretty, young thing smiles his direction.
Sending You Love, Kristina Marchant
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