Getting Back Together Just Got Easier The process of getting back together after a break up is a very delicate issue and one that you need to tackle carefully in order to succeed.
People break up every day, it is just a fact of life.
However, the worst part is that most of those relationships are salvageable with the right advice.
The fact is that they are not only salvageable, but they have the potential to become fulfilling and most importantly, lasting relationships.
But how can we achieve this? The initial stages are the most difficult and also require extreme care and attention.
I almost ruined this part of the getting back together strategy by trying make her jealous.
This brilliant tactic to get her back almost cost me everything.
Don't worry though, I came to my senses and followed the 3 tips I am about to reveal and I got her back in the end.
What happened? Tip #1: You need to accept the break up.
You have to understand that the process of getting back together with your ex begins by acknowledging that you just broke up because there was a specific problem with the relationship.
Maybe it was a trust issue.
Were there fights? Getting back together without solving the root problem will only lead to more problems.
Tip #2: The next part of getting back together is the assessment of how the break up happened in the first place.
This is your chance to reflect on the why and even more importantly your part in the why.
Be careful though, don't fall into the trap of putting your life on hold.
Join a gym, continue with your hobbies, do everything possible to keep positive.
Tip #3: The most powerful tip I can give you to get her back, is to slowly begin the process of opening the lines of communication.
The speed is important here.
Slow is the only way to go if you want to re-connect with your ex in a meaningful way.
Don't rush steps 1 and 2, take a few weeks setting the foundation.
Things have to calm down after the break up before you can begin trying to get her back.
Any mistakes at this stage could spell the end of any hopes of getting back together with your ex.
You need to have an action plan that you can stick to.
Would you try to craft a boat without having the plans drawn up? Take the same kind of pride in your attempt to get your ex back.
We would all love to have the magic bullet solution to getting back together with an ex.
But, I took the time to build a new, stronger, healthier relationship that is going to last and that is the best kind to have.