What could be worse than a cheating spouse? Having doubts about your spouse and not being able to prove them makes it even worse. If you are in that unfortunate position, then check out these signs to see if your lover might be cheating on you.

1. They don't want to have sex with you. Your spouse is getting their sexual fulfillment with their " fling" and don't have much leftover for you.
2. Your spouse wants to experiment sexually. When they do want to have sex they want to try out the new positions and techniques they have been using with their other lover.
3. Your husband or wife calls you by another name. This should be a big one, unless of course they really are that absent minded.
4. They start buying new clothes. All of a sudden they are really looking spiffy, paying special attention to their hair and overall appearance.
5. They may get nervous when the phone rings. Try to notice if they are trying to be secretive on the phone, or if they are willing to talk in front of you. Everyone already knows that hang up calls are suspicious.
6. Keep an eye on your money. Watch your bank account to see if there is unexplained money missing. If you keep money around the house, keep an eye on that also. They will need extra money to spend on their affair and have to get it somewhere.
7. Their guilt may make them act differently around you. They know what they are doing is wrong and they have to live with the strain of that, and they tend to withdraw from you.
8. They seem to start arguments more than usual. The guilty party will start an argument to use as a reason to storm out of the house. You will certainly know something is wrong if your partner has not been prone to do this before.
9. Check for clues in your car. You may find actual clues left behind if your spouse gets careless or sloppy. They may also want to clean the car before you get in it. Other things to be aware of are unexplained gas being used or your radio stations being changed around.
10. Don't discount your intuition. If you sense there is a reason for concern about your spouse's faithfulness, then pay attention to it. You are the best one to notice whether there is a real problem in your relationship.

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