Rekindling the Romance – 6 Ways You Can Revive the Lost Spark
There is no such thing as "happily ever after". If you want to keep the spark alive in your relationship, then you need to work for it. The real alarm bell rings when the conversation becomes boring, sex becomes less frequent and cute endearments are close to non-existent. If your relationship is currently in the hibernating mode and you are desperate to bring back the lost sizzle, then this one is for you. Here are 5 pointers to get back in the game.
Plan Date Nights
You have been on the first date; now it is time for the 50th or even the 100th. As long as you are together, never stop dating. Couples in long term relationship often take each other for granted and forget the small things that make the relationship what it is. Think about the beautiful things you did during the courtship period and continue doing that.
Flirt Around
Flirting can bring back the fun that you've been craving. You do not need to go out of your way by declaring your undying love. A knowing look, sexy texts when least expected or a just an honest compliment can do the trick. It is important to make your partner feel desired and sexy.
Spend Less Time Together
Believe it or not, it works. While it is ok to feel like spending quality time with your partner, just don't overdo. Spending every minute of the waking hour together can have a counterproductive effect. Let your partner miss you, crave for your presence and feel the need to have you around. Enjoy the weekend out with pals, grab a book and head to the local café or indulge in a fun game with your mates; whatever tickles your fancy. After the long day away when the time for you to be finally together arrives, it will be all the more worth it.
Be Spontaneous
Break the routine! Take your spouse by surprise by doing something spontaneous. It can be anything - a romantic dinner, a drive outside the town, a home cooked meal or a gift. Whatever you do, just put your heart into it. The thrill of doing something new might spark things up a notch.
Talk
There was once a time when you were the best of friends, shared everything, but now it is more about nagging each other and complaining. Switch off the cell phone, internet and every other means that connect you to the outer world. Make an hour just for each other. Listen, hear, talk, discover and get excited!
Couple Massage
The best part of the day is after a hard day's work, having your beau give you a soothing massage. It is time you return the favor and what better way to fire things up than with couple's massage. Whisk your love away to an exotic location over the weekend, enjoy a few drinks, taste some delicacies, bask in the wonders of nature and enjoy a relaxing massage.
Small efforts on your side can go a long way in bringing the lost spark in your relationship.
Plan Date Nights
You have been on the first date; now it is time for the 50th or even the 100th. As long as you are together, never stop dating. Couples in long term relationship often take each other for granted and forget the small things that make the relationship what it is. Think about the beautiful things you did during the courtship period and continue doing that.
Flirt Around
Flirting can bring back the fun that you've been craving. You do not need to go out of your way by declaring your undying love. A knowing look, sexy texts when least expected or a just an honest compliment can do the trick. It is important to make your partner feel desired and sexy.
Spend Less Time Together
Believe it or not, it works. While it is ok to feel like spending quality time with your partner, just don't overdo. Spending every minute of the waking hour together can have a counterproductive effect. Let your partner miss you, crave for your presence and feel the need to have you around. Enjoy the weekend out with pals, grab a book and head to the local café or indulge in a fun game with your mates; whatever tickles your fancy. After the long day away when the time for you to be finally together arrives, it will be all the more worth it.
Be Spontaneous
Break the routine! Take your spouse by surprise by doing something spontaneous. It can be anything - a romantic dinner, a drive outside the town, a home cooked meal or a gift. Whatever you do, just put your heart into it. The thrill of doing something new might spark things up a notch.
Talk
There was once a time when you were the best of friends, shared everything, but now it is more about nagging each other and complaining. Switch off the cell phone, internet and every other means that connect you to the outer world. Make an hour just for each other. Listen, hear, talk, discover and get excited!
Couple Massage
The best part of the day is after a hard day's work, having your beau give you a soothing massage. It is time you return the favor and what better way to fire things up than with couple's massage. Whisk your love away to an exotic location over the weekend, enjoy a few drinks, taste some delicacies, bask in the wonders of nature and enjoy a relaxing massage.
Small efforts on your side can go a long way in bringing the lost spark in your relationship.
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