Relationship Goals Work Every-Time
You married him for better or worse and now that the worse is here, you still want your husband. Depending on the situation often marriages disintegrate over time for lack of knowing how to cherish the time together. Knowing you don't want to let go of your love you need to start taking action right away.
As the old saying goes "it takes two to tango." Which means both of you had a hand in the unraveling. By acknowledging that fact your husband should be able to clearly see and agree on it.
This is your first hurdle to overcome.
No one is perfect and whatever the issues are you both need to own up to your failings. If you are able to make the commitment that your marriage can only be as strong or weak as you make it then you can move on from there however, you both need to share the responsibility of that decision.
Setting relationship goals is an easy way to track what changes each of you need and desire to make.
Draw a line in the sand and then move forward from there. Rediscover those things that fulfill you in your marriage. Urge your husband to do the same thing. Once you do this then you have a common denominator and will find perhaps things are not as in peril as they first seemed.
This little exercise will do wonders for helping you rediscover things you both used to make time to enjoy together.
Now comes the hard part which is finding out how to put the spark back into your lives. We often get so busy with day to day life we forget how to have fun. Even though a certain level of spontaneity is always fun, if you are at a crossroad in your relationship there is nothing wrong about planning couple time. You can still be just as excited.
Remember to share how much you appreciate any efforts your husband makes. If he has been unhappy he may have a difficult time putting his heart into pleasing you. By sincerely taking the time to let him know he is valued he will become more sincere in his efforts as time goes on. The feelings of love will be almost contagious.
Don't forget his male ego may not be able to express how he really feels so you must not be afraid to share your love. It is going to take time to get back to where you used to be. With a little time and effort you may be one of those fortunate people whose marriage will be renewed and rewarded with even greater affection.
As the old saying goes "it takes two to tango." Which means both of you had a hand in the unraveling. By acknowledging that fact your husband should be able to clearly see and agree on it.
This is your first hurdle to overcome.
No one is perfect and whatever the issues are you both need to own up to your failings. If you are able to make the commitment that your marriage can only be as strong or weak as you make it then you can move on from there however, you both need to share the responsibility of that decision.
Setting relationship goals is an easy way to track what changes each of you need and desire to make.
Draw a line in the sand and then move forward from there. Rediscover those things that fulfill you in your marriage. Urge your husband to do the same thing. Once you do this then you have a common denominator and will find perhaps things are not as in peril as they first seemed.
This little exercise will do wonders for helping you rediscover things you both used to make time to enjoy together.
Now comes the hard part which is finding out how to put the spark back into your lives. We often get so busy with day to day life we forget how to have fun. Even though a certain level of spontaneity is always fun, if you are at a crossroad in your relationship there is nothing wrong about planning couple time. You can still be just as excited.
Remember to share how much you appreciate any efforts your husband makes. If he has been unhappy he may have a difficult time putting his heart into pleasing you. By sincerely taking the time to let him know he is valued he will become more sincere in his efforts as time goes on. The feelings of love will be almost contagious.
Don't forget his male ego may not be able to express how he really feels so you must not be afraid to share your love. It is going to take time to get back to where you used to be. With a little time and effort you may be one of those fortunate people whose marriage will be renewed and rewarded with even greater affection.
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