Good Friend - Bad Friend
There are many adjectives to describe people, good, bad, considerate, thoughtful, ruthless, reckless, ambitious, nice, intelligent, and you can find countless more adjectives in a dictionary.
We select an adjective for a person, depending on his conduct, the way he behaves, the way he treats us, the way our acquaintance is with him.
We can suggest any adjective for a person as we like; there are no restrictions to it.
We call those people good, who have a general profile of being nice to others, who we think add something to the society that improves it.
Those with whom we do not have such good relations, and acquaintances, we call them bad.
However, there are certain adjectives that do not suit to some people, such as "BAD" to a "FRIEND".
A friend can never be good or bad, a friend is just a friend.
The reason a friend cannot be bad is, we select our friends ourselves, and nobody forces us to be friends with someone.
If "CHOICE" makes our friends, then surely we always choose the one who is good.
It is the same as you go for shopping something, and you look for what is the best.
Similarly, when you select friends, you choose people who appeal to you.
You may learn it with time that your behavior is different from the people you choose.
You might find your tastes contradicting with them.
You can never call your friends good or bad, either someone is your friend or he is not.
Once you call someone your friend, be consistent about it.
Do not let trivial arguments break your friendship.
You cannot call someone bad if he cannot look eye to eye with you on some matter.
If you want someone who always agrees with you on everything go find yourself a good bootlicker, but you cannot call him your "FRIEND".
You can use these adjectives for friendship.
You might say that someone is good at friendship, if he is loyal and always comes up to help.
You can say that someone is bad at friendship if he does not always prove to be helpful.
But you can never call a friend good or bad.
Before being friends with someone, tell yourself that you will have to accept them with their flaws and weaknesses.
Nobody on earth is born flawless everybody has weaknesses.
You just have to accept them and forgive them, to be good at friendship.
We select an adjective for a person, depending on his conduct, the way he behaves, the way he treats us, the way our acquaintance is with him.
We can suggest any adjective for a person as we like; there are no restrictions to it.
We call those people good, who have a general profile of being nice to others, who we think add something to the society that improves it.
Those with whom we do not have such good relations, and acquaintances, we call them bad.
However, there are certain adjectives that do not suit to some people, such as "BAD" to a "FRIEND".
A friend can never be good or bad, a friend is just a friend.
The reason a friend cannot be bad is, we select our friends ourselves, and nobody forces us to be friends with someone.
If "CHOICE" makes our friends, then surely we always choose the one who is good.
It is the same as you go for shopping something, and you look for what is the best.
Similarly, when you select friends, you choose people who appeal to you.
You may learn it with time that your behavior is different from the people you choose.
You might find your tastes contradicting with them.
You can never call your friends good or bad, either someone is your friend or he is not.
Once you call someone your friend, be consistent about it.
Do not let trivial arguments break your friendship.
You cannot call someone bad if he cannot look eye to eye with you on some matter.
If you want someone who always agrees with you on everything go find yourself a good bootlicker, but you cannot call him your "FRIEND".
You can use these adjectives for friendship.
You might say that someone is good at friendship, if he is loyal and always comes up to help.
You can say that someone is bad at friendship if he does not always prove to be helpful.
But you can never call a friend good or bad.
Before being friends with someone, tell yourself that you will have to accept them with their flaws and weaknesses.
Nobody on earth is born flawless everybody has weaknesses.
You just have to accept them and forgive them, to be good at friendship.
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