It's not great when you have to deal with heartaches.
Sometimes, our emotions control us too much and end up making some common break up mistakes.
It's not good when you make these mistakes because we either lose the chance to get back with our ex or lose the opportunity to remain friends with them.
What are the emotional responses we should steer clear from then? 1.
Hysterical responses Both men and women would probably panic when their loved one breaks the relationship off.
Some cope by crying and that is okay since you do need to purge the pain.
But if you ever have to react to something your ex says remember you are emotional, don't overdo it and get all hysterical! It's a turn-off and your ex would think that you are unstable as well.
2.
Backstabbing If there is something you should never do, it's to run to other people or common friends and rant about how much your ex has hurt you.
No matter how nice that person may seem to be, there is still a chance for what you said to bounce straight into the ears of your ex.
3.
Be jealous A few days, weeks or months after you broke up, your ex might see other single individuals even at a casual level.
If you just happened to see them, don't let jealousy get into you and never attack that person may it be through your actions or words.
Once your ex knows that you did that, they will only get mad at you.
They might even have to force choosing between staying in contact with you or not and that's not good if you want to get them back in your arms or just maintain the easy friendship you have.
Now you have an idea of the break up mistakes people usually make.
Use this to make sure that you don't mess up with your ex!