We have probably experienced it all - leaving our ex and ended up regretting for having done such a thing. And so here you are, feeling so sorry for all the things you did and is hoping to reconcile with your ex boyfriend. Is this scenario seem familiar to you? Read on while I share to you the most effective tips in winning an ex boyfriend back.

Do Not Indulge in Self-Pitying

I truly understand how painful it is to be left by an ex boyfriend whom you truly love that we ended up self-pitying. But if you think real hard, theres actually no reason why you need to feel sorry for what happened since this thing does not only happen to you. And besides, its not yet the end of the world, there is still a big chance that you and your ex will end up in each others arms. So stay calm, take a deep breath and go on with your life.

Try but Don't Cry

If you feel you can finally meet up with your ex boyfriend and talk about possible reconciliation, then go ahead, feel free to do so. However, know your limitations and do not appear like you are so desperate to win him over. It is definitely okay to express your feelings towards your ex boyfriend by letting him know how much you still love him, but do not cry and beg for him to come back into your life.

Talk Things Out

The next thing to do in winning your ex boyfriend is to do the move in talking to him in the best way possible, while being honest with everything that you feel towards him. Dont be afraid to talk about your plans of possible reconciliation but make sure that you are prepared to hear whatever he is going to tell you. If your ex no longer wants to have you back in his life, then its time to move on and accept the fact that you can no longer be together with each other.

Change for the Better

Whether you ended up successful in trying to win your ex boyfriend, your next step is to do improvements in yourself. If you feel that there are a lot of things to work on in your life, then its time that you do something to improve yourself and become a better person for your ex or to whoever it is that youll end up with. Consider the breakup as a learning experience and a way for you to grow up and become a mature person.

If you are seriously thinking of getting your ex boyfriend back after a breakup, make sure that you are also ready to face whatever the consequences of your actions are. There is nothing wrong in making the first move on winning your ex back, but know your limitations and know when to stop. Remember that you should not be chasing your ex all your life just because you regret your decision of leaving him. Maintain your dignity as a woman, and learn to let go if there is a need to.