Forgiving Your Husband's Affair - Why It Should Begin in the Mirror
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Sometimes it's hard to think that forgiving your husband's affair is even possible. There are many things you can do that will help you give him the forgiveness you both need to offer in order to save your marriage. But you're going to need to begin all the forgiveness you're offering by taking a long look in the mirror.
Why do you need to begin in the mirror if you're working on forgiving your husband's affair? It's a good question.
The thing is, most women in your situation blame themselves for their husband's affairs. Are you blaming yourself for your husband's cheating? Are you making excuses for him? Are you pointing the finger at yourself for his cheating?
It's one thing to accept the fact that neither of you are blameless. But, you do not deserve the full brunt of the blame for his affair. Until you learn to forgive yourself for not being a perfect wife and causing him (in your mind) to have an affair you will have a much harder time of forgiving him for actually having the affair.
What Comes Next?
Once you've gone through the sometimes difficult process of forgiving yourself for being every so slightly imperfect, forgiving him will be much easier than you've imagined it would be. These little tricks will help you make it even easier.
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Sometimes it's hard to think that forgiving your husband's affair is even possible. There are many things you can do that will help you give him the forgiveness you both need to offer in order to save your marriage. But you're going to need to begin all the forgiveness you're offering by taking a long look in the mirror.
Why do you need to begin in the mirror if you're working on forgiving your husband's affair? It's a good question.
The thing is, most women in your situation blame themselves for their husband's affairs. Are you blaming yourself for your husband's cheating? Are you making excuses for him? Are you pointing the finger at yourself for his cheating?
It's one thing to accept the fact that neither of you are blameless. But, you do not deserve the full brunt of the blame for his affair. Until you learn to forgive yourself for not being a perfect wife and causing him (in your mind) to have an affair you will have a much harder time of forgiving him for actually having the affair.
What Comes Next?
Once you've gone through the sometimes difficult process of forgiving yourself for being every so slightly imperfect, forgiving him will be much easier than you've imagined it would be. These little tricks will help you make it even easier.
- Start small. Don't try to forgive him for cheating first. Try the little things that annoy you about your husband. Like the way he'll do things for his mother after she asks once but you have to beg, scream, and pull out your hair to get him to do the same things for you. OK, maybe it's not so little after all. But, for most women, it's not in quite the same league as having a long-term affair with another woman.
- Practice often. The more practice you get at forgiving your husband (and others) the easier it will be to do so. This is so true and so often overlooked. Practice forgiving him for the smaller things so that you won't find it quite as difficult forgiving your husband's affair.
- Focus on the future. When you're focused on a future together with your husband you won't have time to dwell on the sins of the past - even the very big sins of the past. It isn't that you forget all about it and pretend it never happened. It's just that your thoughts are focused on the good things yet to come instead
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