Relationship breakups happen everyday and when it does there is hurt feelings and confusion all over the place. It's a tough situation, but you don't need to make it any harder to get your ex girlfriend back than it has to be. Even though it happens everyday, that doesn't make matters any easier when you are the one going through the trauma of the breakup.

Getting back your ex girlfriend could all depend upon how smart you play your cards. Women are very emotional and one false move and she might be done with you forever. There are some things that you can do that have worked like a charm for other guys in the same situation and they should work for you.

1. Take it  cool

I know, all your life you have been taught to be aggressive but when it comes to getting back with your ex, being aggressive could be a big mistake. Let her have a little time to miss you. She probably still cares for you, but something set her off and now she needs to get it out of her system.

2. Have some fun

Don't just sit around feeling sorry for yourself, get out with the guys and enjoy yourself. This doesn't mean that you should go out, get bombed and pickup Miss Easy to show your ex girlfriend that you are still a stud. This won't impress her a bit. On the contrary, she will probably lose what little respect she has left for you, and you will be on her don't call list forever.

3. Show your strength

To get your ex girlfriend back, you need to show her that you are a strong, self reliant guy and that you can make a life without her. Don't be trying to talk her into making up or telling her that you will change. You have to show her that you are the same guy that she was attracted to in the beginning.