Losing your love is tough but trying to get them back is not easy as well.
When you really love someone you want to win them back.
So pull yourself together and never make the following mistakes.
Do not get drunk and call when intoxicated.
This will only anger them more and make you look desperate.
Calm your mind and make a call and a polite conversation.
When you are intoxicated you can become abusive and that is the last thing your ex wants to hear from you.
Don't irritate the other by flooding them with calls and messages.
Don't be negative or bombard them with mudslinging messages, or to put the blame game on your ex partner.
Your ex is going to get all the more hurt and upset.
Never confront your ex in front of friends or in public areas.
This will cause embarrassment and also you will hurt your ex's pride.
He will definitely withdraw if you do that.
Give him space in public areas.
Even if you meet him in common parties just be casual and make friendly conversation.
This might even set his mind wondering.
Never use ultimatums or threats.
This will set your ex to think that he has never seen this side of you and make him happy that he is free from this.
You cannot manipulate his life now since you are not part of it.
Using emotional blackmail like telling you may commit suicide or other things will trigger his disrespect for you.
He may start to think that he is lucky to have escaped someone with such extreme depressive conditions.
This will choke him and even if he says he wants to get back, he is lying to wriggle out of guilt and fear.
He may temporarily appear to get back so that he you may not do anything to yourself.