Writing Wedding Vows - Make Your Mind Believe Whatever You Want
Did you know that more advances and discoveries having to do with how the mind works were made in the 1990s than ever before? I mention that because that is knowledge you can use when it comes to writing your wedding or commitment vows and using them to set a strong foundation for your marriage.
What I want you to do is to take these discoveries about how the mind works and integrate them into writing your wedding vows.
Create your vows with intention and mindfulness.
What you are doing is giving your subconscious, or emotional mind, a very clear purposeful direction.
Here's one of the discoveries I was talking about: Your subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between what is real and what is imagined.
That one discovery has vast and very important implications for you, because you can make your mind believe whatever you want.
You can imprint a dream or a goal and if you do it with passion and purpose, continue to reinforce and support that imprint, it will eventually become your life operating system.
You will automatically think, act, react, and live your life and the life of your marriage from those standards and values.
This means that your vows become a magnet and bring to you everything you need to support the life you imagine--effortlessly.
That includes people, things, opportunities, experiences and ideas.
Sit down together and talk about important aspects of your relationship: money, sex, religion and spirituality, children, in-laws, careers, houses, cars, things, philanthropy.
Don't make it difficult.
Just talk about the dream you have for your life together over a nice diner.
Have fun talking about areas of your life you have never thought to talk about let alone think about.
I want you to have the most amazing beautiful life possible.
All I'm asking is that you take a little time to get clear about what it is you want, talk about it, write it out, pledge it and then keep on reviewing it over and over and over and over.
This is amazing stuff.
Lighten up.
(This is commandment #10!) Love, light and laughter, Rev.
Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach Helping couples write down the dream and then live it!
What I want you to do is to take these discoveries about how the mind works and integrate them into writing your wedding vows.
Create your vows with intention and mindfulness.
What you are doing is giving your subconscious, or emotional mind, a very clear purposeful direction.
Here's one of the discoveries I was talking about: Your subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between what is real and what is imagined.
That one discovery has vast and very important implications for you, because you can make your mind believe whatever you want.
You can imprint a dream or a goal and if you do it with passion and purpose, continue to reinforce and support that imprint, it will eventually become your life operating system.
You will automatically think, act, react, and live your life and the life of your marriage from those standards and values.
This means that your vows become a magnet and bring to you everything you need to support the life you imagine--effortlessly.
That includes people, things, opportunities, experiences and ideas.
Sit down together and talk about important aspects of your relationship: money, sex, religion and spirituality, children, in-laws, careers, houses, cars, things, philanthropy.
Don't make it difficult.
Just talk about the dream you have for your life together over a nice diner.
Have fun talking about areas of your life you have never thought to talk about let alone think about.
I want you to have the most amazing beautiful life possible.
All I'm asking is that you take a little time to get clear about what it is you want, talk about it, write it out, pledge it and then keep on reviewing it over and over and over and over.
This is amazing stuff.
Lighten up.
(This is commandment #10!) Love, light and laughter, Rev.
Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach Helping couples write down the dream and then live it!
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