Perhaps your relationship with your partner (wife, husband, boyfriend, or girlfriend) had turned sour and now you have come to your senses and want him/her back.
How can you go about this? What if the person has moved on with another person? If this is so, then, you have an uphill task of getting him or her back when you still want their love.
The following are tips you can adopt to restore your relationship with the person you love but have lost.
* You have to reconsider why your relationship broke up in the first place.
It could be that you disagreed that none of you wanted to back down on.
Both of you were on the right when the disagreement happened and looking back at it now, you realize how foolish you were to have allowed things to deteriorate so badly.
If you think on this properly, you will be able to discover who between you was really selfish.
Yes, self-centered and the inability to accept another persons' point of view are among the many factors that lead to broken relationships.
* Once you clarify the cause of your separation you then have to reassure yourself now that you really want to get back to him or her.
At this point, you have made up your mind to amend your differences (at least from your own side of things).
Change any behavior, actions, or views that might have set the stage for your separation.
A reassurance happens before you approach the person for reconciliation, because a change in you can stimulate an equal reaction in the person.
* A good and lasting relationship builds on trust.
When you go to ask for reconciliation, try to rebuild the trust that the person had for you.
Fulfill your promises and promote comfort when you are together.
If you are a man, it is important for you to know that every woman will prefer a man who has confidence and one who will give comfort to his spouse.
Be this man and you can get your love back! The stage is now set for you.
Try the above tips and see if your ex is not going to come back to you.
Warning! If your ex is now engaged or has moved on with another person, this task could be difficult, but not impossible.
So, nothing prevents you from trying.
And here is the important thing - be very optimistic that it will work out well, before you approach your ex.
And yes, I am coming from the "Law of Attraction" school of thought, which says a positive person in life attracts positive and negative person attracts negative.