"Every marriage can be saved.
" This is coming from the mouth of the relationship expert who has saved my marriage, and she is absolutely right.
She continues; "I have seen over a thousand cases of failing marriages, and not even one of them was something completely irreparable.
I saw nothing that convinced me to believe that at least some marriages are beyond redemption.
All of them can be saved.
" Doing so, however, is not a piece of cake; as a marriage is a long-term institution, the problems don't appear overnight, and they can't be cured overnight.
And this is exactly the key point in trying to save a marriage: Knowing that there are no "quick fix"es to stop a marriage from ending in divorce.
Whatever the problems are, they built up over time.
No magic recipe will make you repair all damage unless you go down to the root of the problems and fix them.
This is a very crucial point.
In fact, it's the most crucial point in saving a marriage.
Most people, the same woman has told me, give knee-jerk reactions to the appearance of a possibility of a divorce.
And I instantly understood what she meant by that because I was going through the exact same reaction: "My marriage is circling down the drain.
I need to do something.
I can do something to fix this at once.
" As easily understood, the "quick fix" approach is the knee-jerk reaction state of mind and it's something you should definitely avoid.
What needs to be done, on the other hand, is to quit this state of mind and enter what is called the "marriage saving state of mind", in which you stay calm and considerate.
This makes you able to look at everything from a much wider perspective, and this will make you go down deep on your marriage problems - the fundamental problems in your marriage and treat them.
This is how I stopped a divorce from happening - and it's the only way to do it.